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marye

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Here's the place to talk about our departed loved ones -- friends, family members, tour buddies, and others we've lost along the way.

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July 31, 2014 - 5:34am

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taataabyebye55

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Loved ones

We can make a prayer pillow using our lost loved ones clothes. We can design it from our own creativity and can place a front pocket to keep a notebook and our favorite pen. It will give us some warm feelings when our arms long to hold our loved ones.
June 12, 2014 - 5:57pm

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slo lettuce

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July 20, 2012

The Young Ones...

Although this was only one of many shows Rik graced, it was one of my all time favorite comedies. Rik Mayall as Rik and Ade Edmondson as Vyvyan the violent punker were over the top. and following in that same vein: "There were times when Rik and I were writing and we almost died laughing. They were some of the most carefree stupid days I ever had, and I feel privileged to have shared them with him. And now he's died for real. Without me. Selfish bastard." -Ade Edmondson
June 9, 2014 - 11:21pm

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Randall Lard

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July 30, 2012

Bigger than Hitler, Better than Christ

So sad to hear that Rik Mayall died yesterday morning. Without a shadow of a doubt, one of the world's finest comedians. To witness him on screen or on stage at full throttle was truly something special. "Fireball creativity" is absolutely right. Commenting after his accident which left him in a coma for five days - "I beat Jesus Christ," he said. "He was dead for three days at Easter. When I crashed it was the day before Good Friday, Crap Thursday, and I was technically dead until Easter Monday - that's five days ... beat him 5-3." The world burns less brightly today.
May 28, 2014 - 10:25am

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trailbird

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January 8, 2011

a song flung up to Heaven

In memory of Maya Angelou, thank you, you will be at the top of my summer reading list. Peace to all.
May 10, 2014 - 11:20am

#145

marye

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May 26, 2007

so sorry for your trouble

but happy that you get some time together now.
May 10, 2014 - 7:21am

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mona

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September 28, 2008

Hoping love would not forsake the days that lie between.

Today I found out my long time friend from birth, my brother Jimmy is defiantly leaving us but God has given him sometime to be with the ones he loves. Today he was awake, ornery, and sweet as ever.IDK how he does it but his nurse, the female Chaplin, all hot! LOL!! We had lunch together and when I was leaving he got me to sneak a cig to him. Told him "as long as you don't lite it." He whispered "Hey Tam! I'm going to smoke it when I go outside soon." Still apart of me that would not doubt it. Then I looked at his last days with the TV turned on to channel he didn't prob. pic and ran out and bought one of the last of 2 CD players at Fred Meyers with big headphones so they won't slip off his head. NOW they have him partially restraint Silly. Got him the new Willie, Bonnie Rait, and the lost Cash tapes. Also thru in blues. Ozzy!. and of coarse some GD. (~);-) I would always play them when he wasn't looking and he would always say "Hey! Who is this? These guys are good!".Just going to enjoy him while I can. All his nieces who I baby sat came and flew up to his sisters house to be closer to him so I will get to see them again. Thanx all for the support! I am glad to say I made it thru with no cops called. No harm to myself or others. Well a little ding on my trunk but Hey!, something had to give!
April 17, 2014 - 4:58pm

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andreaisadora

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April 17, 2014

My Friend Cactus

Anyone remember Cactus. He played guitar and mandolin . He toured in the 90s and was young, maybe 18 in '90 he is not in Phish or Granola Funk(lots of people direct me that way) ...
April 16, 2014 - 2:37pm

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mona

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September 28, 2008

I am posting this for Phaedra Boothe family not from them

We lost Phaedre Boothe last week. Story above^^. A fund was set up to help her loved ones bring her back to Texas from NY and help with the funeral service. If you knew her or would like to help here is the info. TY Donation Information: There are two legitimate accounts to which donations can be made. 1. via paypal: Go to paypal. Click "send money". Type in javalz@att.net, then proceed onto the following steps 2. City Bank Lubbock: there is a fund set up under the name Phaedra Boothe Memorial Fund. This can be done at any Lubbock City Bank location. *All donations are greatly appreciated. We are extremely grateful for the outpouring love, support, and kind words in regards to our dear Phaedra.
April 12, 2014 - 10:29am

#149

mona

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September 28, 2008

Is a sad day today.

Sistah Phaedra Boothe will be laid to rest today after being found in her hotel room from falling. She was waiting for the Caps shows. Furthur sent roses with white Lilly's and a note "From all of us in the Furthur band, we saw you, and love you. Phaedre, We mourn along side your family. May we find comfort in song as you soar onward. Furthur." NPA. (~);-)
April 11, 2014 - 12:24pm

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marye

Joined:
May 26, 2007

sorry to read about Jesse Winchester's passing

He wrote some great ones, and was by all accounts a great guy. I think I like this best of all his songs.

John Perry Barlow

John Perry Barlow

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Here's the place to talk about our departed loved ones -- friends, family members, tour buddies, and others we've lost along the way.

Don Van Vliet

Another true musical and artistic visionary gone. RIP Capt. Beefheart.

...and Baker Street

Gerry Rafferty was only 63. I still hear Baker Street fairly often on the FM radio. Reminds me of a girl named Jill I once ran with, briefly, from Evergreen to Doylestown then down to Boulder.

I hope you're real proud of yourself

using a place where we remember those we miss, to further your greed. I can't believe you'd put an ad in here...what gall.

you're assuming

the spammer is a human being. Probably not.

I had thought since the same spammer posted different messages on different forums that it was an individual, but I'm don't know much about this automated stuff, other than I lost my job due to automation.

and apparently

I can't form grammatically correct sentences, either..

R.I.P. Don Kirshner

Any body that was a teen in the 70's can remember Don Kirshner's Rock Concert on TV. How many parties revolved around that when the parents weren't home?

TL

Very sorry your dad and cat passed on...octopus hugs and healing rays for a decade

Don Kirshner's Rock Concert

and midnite special but don had the coolest bands. he recorded a time in history. bummed to be too young and home on a weekend but the best thing about staying up :)

Yeah mona!

Who could forget the television show, "Don Kirshner’s Rock Concert" and the barriers it broke not only in the television market but also in the nation’s cultural mindset of music on TV by shedding the over-rehearsed and lip synced production most Americans had become used to since the ‘50s? Kirshner also produced the hit TV series "The Monkeys" and contributed the bulk of the song writing for that show. He was inducted into the Song Writers Hall of Fame in 2007. R.I.P. Don Kirshner...

Thanks Linder

I appreciate that. Especially reading it tonight cuz have been almost washed under by a sunami if grief that came outta nowhere this evening.********************************** I am not young enough to know everything. Oscar Wilde

It happens, Sister...

and it will....for awhile...you're strong, you'll get through it, pal...

Traudl Heimpold

Grandmother to Tigerlilly's kids.......RIP Oma

Jack LaLanne

Fitness guru...many of us saw his exercise program, one of the first, on the TV as we were growing up. 96 years of age, and was still in better shape than alot of 30 year olds

thanks johnman

we need all the strength we can get right bout now. all been a bit too much for my kids to swallow -4 losses in 2 months.********************************** I am not young enough to know everything. Oscar Wilde

R.I.P.

Gary Moore!Only 58-how sad!!!!!! ********************************** I am not young enough to know everything. Oscar Wilde

Hang In TL!

So sorry about your loses recently TigerLilly, as if life isn't hard enough by its own merits. I can't possibly understand how you feel with all you've been through but my prayers are with you always (even when I'm not around here).

Even though my brother died in 1999 I still miss him

My older brother Bill died in 1999 from Lukemia at the age of 56. Thanks to Bill he would "arrainged" for me to babysit.so I could go and see the greatful dead. My dad was a strick trip{Yes I loved him}but he expected us to be in the house by 9:30 at the age of 17.My brother had three adorable kids, he would call my dad and tell him.that he and his wife was going out and they needed me to babysit. I woudl then go to the concert and then go home the next morning when Bill picked me up at the bus station in Atlantic City then drive me home. Rest in peace Bill. I miss you still.

now THAT

is a great brother. So sorry for your loss.

Thank You Martye

Bill did not care for the greatful dead but he knew that Dad was unrelistic and he went thruit and he got kicked out of the house when he was 16. So he helped my sister and I get out of the house.

Thank You Martye

Bill did not care for the greatful dead but he knew that Dad was unrelistic and he went thruit and he got kicked out of the house when he was 16. So he helped my sister and I get out of the house.

Kevin Dougherty RIP

I just found out our old friend Kevin Dougherty passed away back in 2009 In Eugene... We had many colorful experiences together. Fun in SF! Great shows. Had families. Did our things. My wife's & my last show was at Autzen, hanging with Kevin & Jane & our kids. I am finding that getting old is hard because of the people that you lose... I love you Bro...

bear dies in a car crash in australia

Rest in peace Bear, you changed my life like so many others. I will always remember that purple haze, orange sunshine, yellow sunshine and blue cheer that you turned the world onto, you were the greatest. Without you, there would be no grateful dead.

whoa!

I just heard this... Here's a news story: http://www.publicbroadcasting.net/ksfr/news.newsmain/article/0/0/177485…

Bear

Long live the legacy and the work of Bear! May his memory cause no man or woman harm! he faster we go the rounder we get!

RIP Bear

Sad way to go. Thanks for everything.

RIP Bear

The Orange Juice may be safer, but we are saddened by your passing. Thanks for helping to create the SF atmosphere and for laying the ground work on the sound system.

Bear's Passing

A sad day, just does not seem to be the way Bear should have gone. A survivor, in many ways ahead of his times, both technologically and perhaps psychologically. While his pharmacological roles were certainly important, there was far more to the man. R.I.P.

It is a very sad day. His

It is a very sad day. His vision of sound broke through barriers decades before anyone on the planet. We will miss you Bear, but your molecules will rain down on us forever. And for that we will all be better.

sad indeed to learn this

Grate man

Inspiration

Enormous gentle vibes to Bear's family...came through many fights. Thank-you/om gate

RIP Bear

another sad passing that came too soon! thank you Bear for the sights n'sounds.PEACE

Bear

just got a SYF tatt last week then bear passed think I'm gonna add another tear.

Bear

Thanks for being, Bear. I'll meet you at the jubilee.

Mr. Posture's Departure story (Bear)

My allowabull folklore about Bear ("summary") "Do you really want to tell me I can *()&$^&*?" "Do Bears Shit in the Forest??" (the biggest Southpark Smile possible on this pusser) keep your character, enjoy living, share your fortune, OXOX Merple Reddin

take good care Bear...

thanks for all the help and inspiration you gave me back in the 60's..

nobody famous

but means the world to me personally. May 1st my dad's friends are having a memorial picnic, in his honor. I am going, but I am not sure how well I can pull it off without having an emotional meltdown. BUT I love it that his friends have decided to carry on his annual picnic, in his memory. ********************************** I am not young enough to know everything. Oscar Wilde

Rest in Peace, Bear

Furthur did a great tribute to Bear at one of their shows. Played a rockin' Alice D. Millionare, but the whole show was tribute. And it all was great. ----------------------------------------------------------------------------- Ain't nobody messin' with you but you AND WE ALL LOVE YOU

In search of old dead head Winddancer..

Hello there, I am searching for my birthfather with little to go on.. I was conceived in Eugene oregon in the summer of 79. My father went by the name winddancer and traveled up and down the west coast. He met my mother Devorah and they were only together for a short while. I do not have a birthname, except perhaps he also went by the name of Jonathan? He frequented Santa cruz,ca, not sure where he is origionally from.. Thought i would post here. The circle back then was a bit tighter, not sure what it is like now.. Any leads, any info of this invisible man in my life will be gratefully appreciated! Also, if you have any recommendations on where I can search or where the appropriate place to post is, that is also very helpful:)Aloha, Sarah

Windancer

I'll ask my husband. She went to Santa Cruz to see his frail mother with and lung problems + and a paralyzed arm. They where both huge Heads and my husband knows almost evrey 'Head in Santa Cruz. Will Have to ask him. I hope you find him! Keep on your search. Don't stop sister, I know you'll find him! ------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Ain't nobody messin' with you but you AND WE ALL LOVE YOU

Gil Scott-Heron

We just lost a truly great poet, musician, performer, activist and human being. And especially sad as it was just when he was getting his life back together again. He is called the godfather of rap, but he never liked that title and it completely misses the point about what made him great. His live shows were celebrations, strong strong messages, razor wit and funky jazz tunes. Rest in Peace Gil Scott-Heron The revolution will not be televised! http://vimeo.com/24398430 http://www.guardian.co.uk/music/2011/may/28/gil-scott-heron-obituary 'You alone consider mercy after it seems like all you get is pain It seem to me that you have found the courage that others could not find You alone have the wisdom to take this world and make it what it need to be, want to be, will be, someday you'll see The day, the day you understand That there ain't no such thing as a superman'

James "Curley" Cooke

Bluesman and a founding member of the original Steve Miller Band. He was the creator of Pacific Northwest Blues in the Schools. Passed after a long battle with cancer May 16th, 66 years of age. memorial show will be held at Blues Vespers Sunday, June 5th at Immanuel Presbyterian Church in Tacoma, Washington. Jerry Miller (Moby Grape), Jay Mabin and other local blues musicians to play. Blues Vespers is always free but donations are always accepted and will be donated to Blues in the Schools.

kow kow

Sad news Johnman. It was always a great pleasure to hear the Steve Miller Blues Band in good old SF. Nice to hear Jerry Miller will be at the memorial. My heart goes out to his family and the Pacific Northwest. : (

Jery plays here often

born and raised Tacoman, but I heard he moved to Pacific coupla years ago. I think it was two years ago word was he lost everything in a flood in Pacific, something to do with the Civil Engineers opening, or not opening a levee or something during a bad storm. I know that there was a benefit for him at The Swiss, in downtown T-town...