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    marye
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    So, we've all had some great conversations interrupted by that misbehaving chatroom lately. Mr. Pid wrote a great song on the subject...

    Feel free to pick them up again here. Or report your more surreal episodes of being booted for misbehaving. 

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  • cosmicbadger
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    thanks Marye
    Wise words indeed. The BoZo filter sounds fine to me. But what I really want to know is what this 'mod hat' looks like is it any of these? http://tinyurl.com/33e4dd6
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    (mod hat on) since I posted the above
    I have received complaints from A that B is harassing him, complaints from B that C is making his life miserable, etc. Whereas I'm sure it would make A happy if I nuked B's account, and B happy if I nuked C's, and so on ad infinitem, that is, as we have seen in many online venues, the path to perdition. Put it this way. As any community grows, there are going to be people in it who just can't stand each other. There is no harm and no foul in this; no one is required to like everybody. What they ARE required to do here is get along. (Anyone who went to shows for any length of time quickly identified people in the scene who drove them nuts, or got really ugly on drugs, or had run off with their ex, or burned them on some deal. And yet they usually managed to stay out of each other's way. Online communities enable a particular sort of viciousness that wouldn't last five minutes in real life.) On other systems I've been on, the most effective way of dealing with this issue is to have available a tool called (on the Well at least, and in Unixy culture generally I think) a bozo filter. If you can't stand somebody, put them in your bozo filter and their communiques will be invisible to you forevermore. This occasionally makes online discussions a bit cryptic but is a great--and controlled by you--tool for keeping the peace. I've asked if we can have one installed here; currently you can block PMs but not posts, chat, etc. This may or may not be possible. But until such time as we have it available, pretend it's there anyway. If A drives you crazy, ignore every word A posts. We're all grownups here, we can do it. And, just a hint, do not announce to A that neener neener, I can't HEEAARR you... This invariably fans the flames, TMOT. If the chatroom continues to be a trouble vector and haven for bad actors, it will go on hiatus, but since I am very reluctant to have a few people ruin the scene for everybody, and lots of people use the chatroom in perfectly civil fashion, I would cordially invite folks to straighten this out for themselves before I am obliged to resort to such draconian measures. Thank you. (mod hat off)
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    Group W bench;
    The default location where most in our community of free spirits can find themselves at some point along the way....
  • Anonymous (not verified)
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    Group W Bench...
    ...seems to be a euphemism for all the rejects/recalcitrants. Officer Obie indeed!
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    HAHAHAHA
    Whipper Snapper Bench :)!! That's a hoot. & I LOVE YA"LL ! PEACE
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    excepting alice!
    rider i LOVE U! MWAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!
  • Allis185
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    Walk right in
    its around the back.. just a half a mile from the rail road track.....You can get anything you want at Alice's restaurant .
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    Group W?
    wtf is that rider??? I couldn't handle the cigs.......OH maybe it's "Whipper Snapper" group bench.....ha.......:)))
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    welllll.........
    THAT....i can handle.......the group W bench...fine place it is, with many fine folk
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    Alrighty Now ~
    You boys are members.... of the Group W Bench :) "Kid, whad'ya get? I said~ I didn't get nothing, I had to pay $50 and pick up the garbage.He said, What were you arrested for, kid? And I said ~ Littering. And they all moved away from me on the bench there~ and the hairy eyeball and all kinds of mean nasty things, till I said~ And creating a nuisance ~ And they all came back, shook my hand, and we had a great time on the bench, talkin about crime, Mother stabbing, Father raping ~ all kinds of groovy things that we was talking about on the bench there ~ And everything was fine, we was smoking cigarettes and ALL kinds of things...." PEACE
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So, we've all had some great conversations interrupted by that misbehaving chatroom lately. Mr. Pid wrote a great song on the subject...

Feel free to pick them up again here. Or report your more surreal episodes of being booted for misbehaving. 

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dude!
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that sure was nice of you to share:) was watching it and saw myself change, which really blew my mind..
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you mean you was in the take a step back, Box video? cool beans!!! OR!! did you see yourself as one dude who 'dudes' others, and yet takes no shame in duding a dude? are you a shameless 'duder' dude?? ( -: Some people consider me to be a feckless 'duder' but I, for one, would like to point out that I am full of 'feck' DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Mr. Sunshine Daydream and I don't even know how to perform a virtual Heimlich manuever If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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Having a little repetition problem this morning? Your bug come back:-) Was at Feria-got home at about 7 this morning. Was a great experience, though a pain in the butt to get home. Were in 3 casetas-one quite traditional, one just plain boring, and one where we spent many hours, an "open" one belonging to a group for open-mindedness and toleration, where the music was not Sevillianas, but a mix of ancient Spanish pop classics, and a whole bunch of more alternative Sevillians. Learned the basics of dancing Sevillianas, and after enough manzanilla-could even imitate the more talented halfway decently. Was a great night, but think was enough Sevillian Feria for me. Will go to one in Asuna in May with a co-worker, which is supposed to be smaller. Is supposed to be alot more intimate-so will see. ********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens
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for the dude update...I just duded you...hehe
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Sounds like fun. When I looked at the videos on you tube I was surprised by all the variety.in dance styles and clothing. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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no problemo, dude we aim to please. ********************** "too bad it is ONLY aiming since there aren't too many bullets left in your old gun" mutters ccjoe's old lady. (ouch! that one hurt)
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The wife and I just finished watching Kingpin. I'd fortgotten how funny it is. Anyway, in the course of the film, there comes a point where one of the characters has to roll a third time in the tenth frame. I explained to my wife under what circumstance the phenomenon of the Third Roll In The Tenth Frame occurs and its many and varied possibilitlies (alright, there aren't THAT many). When I finished my discourse she said to me "Wow, I'm glad I don't know that much about bowling." Think it's time to watch The Big Lebowski again ;-).
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"fuck it dude, let's go bowling."
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Don't get him started. Too late. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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I'll have that finger that was in that box...hehe
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perhaps I should refrain from making a tasteless joke about a lady with a cut of finger in her box... yuk yuk yuk. move over Buddy Hacket! ( -:
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So funny!!!!!
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All Recent posts Chat Room Members Who's online There are currently 2 users and 89 guests online. Online users gratefulmom gdclay We should be sleeping!
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Your comment has been queued for moderation by site administrators and will be published after approval.I'll post in the morning!! Good night! :)
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good morning.nice weather in bella espana.here too,in fact it starts getting so warm that i would not wonder if we had palm-trees here within 5 yrs.:-)(-:
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Lady with a fan??? Lady with a finger in her box??! into S&M?? Box of Pain? love that snapping gyro. ohhh, never mind. I'm babbling. ( -;
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This thing got so long in just a few days, can't sit still long enough to read it all right now. I'll hafta start here. HI guys, miss talkin to you all. What's new? PEACE
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that Chianti & shots of Tequila don't mix well.....just ask me...they don't....don't even try it...or you will feel like shit the morning after! Just thought I'd pass that along!
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as an adult person you should know,that NOTHING mixes good with tequila.as long as you do it you will allways feel like shit the day afterLOL!but hav a nice day anyway!:-)(-:

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I happened to look at the page that shows the topics all listed. Would you believe that this topic was created 4 days and 20 hours ago??? It's, it's, it's a miracle I tell ya!!! No, wait, it's Kismet. Well I must take advantage of this fortuitous moment in time. Please excuse me for a bit...

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I had the sirius channel on in the background this afternoon. The topic was something like: 'Your memories of Winterland'. Towards the end of the show they interview a guy from the Bay Area named "Buddy". It's going to be rebroadcast on Tuesday at 5PM ET... Could it be? LOL
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Back many, MANY moons ago when I worked the offshore oil rigs, I met an ancient gentleman who made no bones about his fondness for all things alcoholic (think he used the 7 days offshore to clean up). He told me the only thing he would never drink again was tequila. When I asked why he just smiled and said, "Tequila will make you take back shit you never stole!". . . Words of wisdom.
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Instead, mix it with Nellie and Joe's key lime juice and lime infused simple syrup in equal parts. Also add 1/3 part Cointreau (or triple sec if you must) and shake with ice. Salt to taste if desired. Yummy! I once whipped up a couple of gallons of this for a party of about 40. It actually lasted almost an hour... Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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so this is the new slo-mo chatroom eh? Well at least you have time to think. Got back from Transylvania Sat nite. Hoping all are well and happy here
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Tequila was awesome, (when I used to drink alcohol). I never had any problems while consuming that stuff but unfortunately, other folks I was around, while under it's influence, seemed to think differently. I came to the conclusion (once I came "to") that this drug shuts off one's brain but isn't nearly as effective doing the same on that person's mouth and feet. Apparently many different law enforcement agencies have confirmed this effect on myself and dispite my better judgement, I stopped (if I make it that long, it will be 19 yrs. on Aug. 13th, not that that really matters to me anymore - I do love that the day was the 13th). I still do milk and cookies, though. "Since you've all been such good boys and girls, I would like to take everybody in this entire audience out for milk and cookies. There are buses outside. Everybody follow me."
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just gotta mix the tequilla with Mezcal and grain alcohol...
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Ok I can't believe that you guys are here and haven't said a thing in 23 minutes. You know who I am talking to. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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Ya well said, the only thing worse than drinking Ta-Kill-ya is throwing it up!!! Used to drink at a Kiwi Bar here in Shanghai and the Tequila shots were free!! Man i have woken up on buses, parks (with Chinese doing Tai-Chi around me), massage parlers, you name it. So with that being said, i do not drink Tequila anymore. This was a while back!! The comment above: “Tequila will make you take back shit you never stole!” Aint that right!! Good one.
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I didn't throw up,but I should of the night before, so I wouldn't of felt so bad the next day...anyway I'm cool now, and probalby won't drink tequilia for a while...hehe To Frankly...hey man I do know better, I was in the moment and everyone was doing shots , so I said what the hell, my own stupid mistake :/ , but I was smart and didn't drive!!
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Glad your feeling better! Been there before, the worst are the spins. Can't go wrong with a Tastey Margarita, until your on #5 or so. He he Have you ever seen the Cheezy commercial for hangover pills, you take before you go to sleep? CCJ ~ Have you looked in the eyes of the Worm?
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No I never heard of them...I use advil and water...lots of it too!!
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Adore tequila! Is a fun drunk, and for some strange reason does not kill me the day afterwards like most other alcohols tend to.********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens