Positive Vibes for Folks in Need, Continued

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November 11, 2008 - 8:31am

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May 1, 2009 - 5:50pm

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BobbaLee

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Giant Vibrating eternal hugs

Mornduvt Our thoughts are with you and your son. Speaking from 20 years experience of listening to my wife Candy(PHd and currently has 3 people on suicide watch) work with many who thought life would be better if they ended it--It won't be. Your friends and parents will never get over it. The pain many think goes away by taking that step comes back and hurts those that really care multiplied uncountable times. Perhaps suggesting that your son become a student counselor to work with fellow students may bring something meaningful and helpful out of this tragedy. Watch the movie "Ordinary People" and talk about it .Your son probably also may harbor feelings of anger at his friend and perhaps feels guilty about it. I am going to sound harsh and if I offend don't take it personally.- Suicide is a selfish act. It is one thing to be in terrible physical pain 80 years old with nothing to look forward to. Adolescent suicide is usually an act of anger towards those people which the child is having a conflict with. It may be no fault of the child and unfair (in the case of bullying) however killing one self is not the answer.It most cases therapy or a very brief hospital stay and willingness to work on improving things would be far better. Sometimes chemical imbalances may account for the depression but not always. If you want to talk off line let me know. And the road goes on forever.... BobbaLee
April 25, 2009 - 6:20am

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noonie

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mornduvt

a giant hug to all who knew this boy. My prayers go out to his family and yours.
April 24, 2009 - 12:28am

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TigerLilly

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mornduvt

Your poor kid! Peace and healing vibes to your son, the family, and your entire community. Such a thing is bewilderingly painful, I KNOW. Strength to you too, to be there to support your son, but sounds like you got that aplenty!********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
April 23, 2009 - 9:28pm

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Linder

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Mornduvt

Light, prayers and healing hugs to your son, family - all the families! I am sorry.
April 23, 2009 - 7:14pm

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johnman

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mornduvt

i can't imagine....no.......i can't....i'll say an extra prayer for all of you. what a monumental bummer....healing vibes to you and yours.........
April 23, 2009 - 5:21pm

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marye

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morn

so sorry to hear this, and comfort to all who loved this kid.
April 23, 2009 - 5:07pm

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Steve-O

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Mornduvt

A big hug goes out to your boy. Some things in life I guess are never meant to be understood.Peace
April 23, 2009 - 9:44am

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Mr. Pid

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Mornduvt

Warm healing thoughts for you, your son and your whole town. I hope your son's friend at least found the peace he was seeking. Pay attention to your friends, folks. You never know when that funny snort, that odd glance, that moment of wry introspection is really a signal of Something Deeper. Just because it's usually nothing serious doesn't mean that this might not be that one time when all they really needs is a genuine smile from a friend to get them back in the game. Smile on your brother, and your sister, too. Try to love one another right now. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
April 23, 2009 - 9:30am

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free idea

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Cosmic hug

Hey Mornduvt, I will keep all of you in my thoughts
April 23, 2009 - 8:23am

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Mornduvt

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Tough times for teenage son

Hey Now Friends I am asking for some good vibes for my teenage son, and my whole community. Sorry if this is long-winded. My son has always loved the GD music I played (constantly) - I sang him to sleep (badly) with Ripple when he was a baby & he used to make me rewind Fire on the Mountain and play it over and over when he was about four. He had always said how bummed out he was that he would never get to see the Grateful Dead and have that experience. So when the current Dead tour came around we got some cheap "at least I'm in the show" tix for Albany and Sunday in Worcester. We had a fantastic time. Both shows were fun and he said the Scarlet Fire on Sunday was one of the happiest moments of his life. On Monday that good vibe was shattered. As we were driving home to our small town he received a text message informing him that a friend of his had taken his own life over the weekend. My son was / is devastated. He says that the greatest day of his life was followed by the worst. He can't make sense of it, and neither can I, or anyone else in our community. This was a brilliant, talented, well-liked kid, and nobody can understand how this could happen. So I'm calling out for a cosmic hug for my boy... but also my whole town, and the family of the boy who took his life. I can not begin to imagine what they are going through. Peace to all ~ hug your kids...

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Evolution, revolution, gun control, sound of soul.Shooting rockets to the moon, kids growing up too soon. Politicians say more taxes will solve everything. Eve of destruction, tax deduction, city inspectors, bill collectors, Mod clothes in demand, population out of hand, suicide, too many bills, Hippies moving to the hills. People all over the world are shouting, 'End the war.' And the band played on. Great googalooga, can't you hear me talking to you. Sayin'... ball of confusion. That's what the world is today, hey, hey. Let me hear ya, let me hear ya, let me hear ya. Sayin'... ball of confusion. That's what the world is today, hey, hey. Let me hear ya, let me hear ya, let me hear ya, let me hear ya, let me hear ya. Sayin'... ball of confusion. peace!

woah

ok gdaed, thats a helluva hand man. what's the next game brother. How's the trout fishing where your at, AZ right. here's some good luck vibes for your next lazy day by the brook.

Norman

peace through musicHey Now , been out of touch for a while so here's an update.....Norman is still in intensive care, but is being weaned off the ventilator. Breathing on his own for 8 hours a day. It has been 4 weeks today, since he went in to the hospital. They deprived him of oxygen and or blood pressure for four to five minutes and he had a bilateral stroke. He wakes up and watches tv with us and can move all his limbs although not on command. Our hope is that he will go to a rehab center soon, but there are some doom and gloom professionals at the hospital that would like us to make other decisions such as ending his life. Thank you for all your positive vibes and the Love that you've sent him. The legal matter has been put off until after the new year. Wishing Peace and Love and Happiness to all.

norman and mary-sunshine

sounds like he has made some improvement, may love and healing be with you.

Our buddy Bob

aka Sunshine Daydream needs some good vibes. He has had a very very bad day.********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens

for Sunshine Daydream

Many positive vibes to you brother. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake

Bob!!

***Sending you positive vibes***Hippie Holidaze!! Peace,Gigi Norm!!! Sending you more healing beams!!! Mary sunshine keep the faith!

Best of vibes to you Bob.

Best of vibes to you Bob. You have shared much joy with the many grate folks here and I wish you the best.

Hey Bob

Hope things start looking up for you real soon. Immediately if possible. Thinking nothing but the best for you. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.

California beams

headed to our Bob! Let us know if we can help.

Galactic Sun Beams

For Sunshine Daydream Bob...a very cool brother of dead.net land.You are missed and unlimited beams and well wishes are sent your way. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Walk into splintered sunlight Inch your way through dead dreams to another land" Robert Hunter ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Ray, a drop of golden sun"

dude!

i'm thinkin' about ya bob!! here's some healing beams fired atcha!!

yo bob

yo bob, whatever it is... love and peace, man.

+++ vibes for Bob

Very positive vibes for Bob , the man that helped get me started in the vineyard ... Thank you very much Bob !! Hope things start looking up for you !!

sky was grey

The sky was grey with a speck of bluePeek through a hole in the clouds The sun was screaming, "Hey Bob!" all good vibes to you!! hey sunshinedaydream hoping better days for you! and as long as we're send across the waters, wishing TigerLily the best on her new endeavour! also for norman and marysunshine...doctors don't know!! and hugs4U2G's hope all is well! peace2all

Thanks folks

much appreciated hugs bob - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Spanish Jam

Thank You

peace through music Just wanted to jot a quick note on my way out the door to the hospital to see Norm. When your sinking in the mire of doubt and or depression just knowing that there are souls out there who take the time to care and write a few words of encouragement can be inspiring. It gives you the strength to carry on. Thank you all for this unconditional Love. And thank the stars for Marye and all the work you do connecting us all. Holiday blessings to all. To Sunshine Daydream Bob; Not sure what's wrong but sending Good Love vibes to you!

Spanish Jam...

Hey Bob,sometimes the night looks very dark,but the SUN comes up every morning and I wish you that its beams will cover you with all the good Vibes you need to go on..!!

EMERGENCY CRISIS PROBLEM

Can anybody help GratefulMom out? She has DSO tix for tonight, and got stood up twice, and is in a bad way. is sort notice but very very important no idea what to do from here ********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens

wadda ya do

when yer so down that ya can't talk to other people for fear you'll bum them out but ya need ta talk to someone so bad it makes yer chest hurt? when ya don't wanna eat, smoke, drink, sleep, stay awake, sit, stand, lie down but yer hungry thirsty tired and alone.........music doesn't help, nor does quiet, so scared ya wanna puke and can't. suicide is too much work and leaves a mess for someone else to clean up and bums THEM out, and ya know THAT ain't right, and ya know it's just selfish to think about yerself but ya know nobody else will.........and even if they do there's nothing they can do for you.................

OH JOHNMAN

come in the chatroom-talk to me. is all I can say to do gotta walk the kids to a friend's and then will come back and wait 4 u! ********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens

johnman

hold on, my good (john)man- the sun will rise again-- we are reaching out to you because of your value in this world i hope you made contact with tigerlilly or someone else who could help ease your pain and isolation i'm sending you good vibes & good wishes & i'll keep you in my prayers- tomorrow is a new year (thank goodness!). thinking of you-- xo c caroline

johnman,

Do what you are doing, my friend. Talk when you can, it can help to endure the pain. That pain is the unwelcome balance the joy that we are blessed to experience. Recognize the great gift of your skeptical humor and wit that you share regularly with us. And know that there are times that your contribution offers us all here a 'cookie' that is a unique 'johnmanism'. I can hear the angst in your post but note the warm empathy for others as well. Again that contrast is striking. And welcome. Move on as you can, brother, and stop and rest when needed. Depression often takes herculean efforts to endure. It is exhasting. Honor your feelings, but care to not linger on those thoughts that are destructive to you and tax your sense of yourself. Persevere and remind yourself of your path and how far you have come. Be gentle with yourself. "Shall we go?...you and I, while we can?" Take care, Tim The Truth is realized in an instant, the act is practiced step by step.

Johnman

We are with you. Take care of yourself. Find joy in your life with your son, remember how important you are to each other. I wish you much peace to your spirit. I really just want to ditto what Oroboros said above. Hal If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake

what they all said

Folks above put it better than I could, bless 'em, but many good vibes and hopes for better times in the new year to you. We will get by!

Oroboros the Wise

That was again a FINE piece of writing.********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens

I`m with Marye

I could`nt have put together any of that , not that well anyway .. Am beamimg you warm positive vibes Johnman !! Hope you get to feeling better .. we`r here for you brother ..

Dear Johnman ~

Feel Good Vibes Headed your way!! I'll be thinking about you Bro :) Enjoy the Cookie one bite at a time & Fuck those flyin Monkeys ~ PEACE

Oroboros does write well...

...iknowurider has a way with words, also ;^). Hope the new morning of a new year finds you in a better place johnman, or at least in a better position to deal with things. My Latin-speaking dog suggests "Illegitimum non carborundum" (a Latin professor would prefer "Noli sinere te ab improbis opprimi") but whichever fits best: Don't let the bastards wear you down, whoever/whatever the bastards may be. Cheers, stop by for a cookie when you're in town, Mark ********************************************* I have a sigfile! --> www.kindveggieburritos.com *********************************************

hey johnman

Sending some peace into your thoughts to go along with the out pouring of love from some of the best people around. This will be a better year, the start of a new era, where hope overcomes despair, and love overcomes hate. The spirit and love you have put forth in these pages has overcome much despair and brightened many hearts. Now pull some of that love deep within you and shine it on yourself johnman, feel your love for yourself, we all feel it for you. Oh, and do what iknowyourider, the princess of technicolor posts, said - enjoy that cookie,I think we all enjoy them a little more thinking of you. peace and hope brother,pk

Johnman

Peace bro, and hang in there. Nothing left to do but...

Sorry Gigi

I would have loved to have helped you out, but I'm far far away.

Vibes of Deep Deep Strength

And healing to you Sister. You know who you are, after our private chat today. Remember what I said bout the next time. I meant it. Be strong, be well, and more importantly, be FREE! love you. ********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens

My father

is having quadruple bypass surgery today, just found out, he had a heart cath this am and they are going in right away My mom is with him and no relative near (they do have some close friends with them). They are half the country away from me right now in Texas where they go for the winter. One of my brothers is flying in tonight to be with them. I will be heading down in the next couple of weeks to help with the recovery and healing but it is very hard to be so far away right now. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake

Hal

Healthy Heart vibes for your father, and strength for you. With a heart as big as yours, your love and caring will pull him through. All the strength I can send you. Please try to let us know how it's going from time to time. Remember you are SUPERHAL-not just for smashing bigots-but for being a good man.********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens

heartbeams to Hal's Dad

and safe travel and sustenance beams to Hal and family.

All good thoughts

for Hal and Hal's dad. Strength and a speedy recovery. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.

strength and caring beams of wellness

straight to you and your father Hal. although you are a distance away...we know that your spirit is close. wishing you and all a safe journey through to a speedy recovery. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Walk into splintered sunlight Inch your way through dead dreams to another land" Robert Hunter ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Ray, a drop of golden sun"

Healing beams

and positive vibes going out to Hal and his Dad and his whole family.Keep the faith! Peace,Gigi

Best wishes for your dad, Hal

Hope for the best for you and yours. Mark ********************************************* I have a sigfile! --> www.kindveggieburritos.com *********************************************

Hal

thinking all things good for your dad, Hal! and good luck on your journey.

Healing vibes for a great father

who has a great son. Hal,Tigerlily said it well. You have a heart of gold, and that most assuredly came from having a father with the same. Your spirit is with him for sure and you will be there soon. We will be thinking of him and sending positive thoughts to you both. All our love and support Hal, take care,pk

Positive vibes

To your father Hal, and to your Mother and You as well. Peace and prayers!!!

thanks everyone

for all the good vibes. You are the best. What a grate community. A virtual hug to each one of you. He is out of surgery now and doing well. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake

Grate News!!!!

Glad to hear it!!!Peace

pal hal

just got the news and am glad he is doing well.....now i get to send YOU positive vibes...god knows you deserve them....here's wishing your pops a speedy recovery....i'll pray for him!!

and while i'm here

thanx everyone for all the kind thoughts, words and positive vibes i have been receiving....it has helped alot!!! much-o's garcias to all of you!!!

Hal, all the bright wellbeams

to shine down upon your father and to add strength to your mother as they heal together. My hope is for a strong recovery and gentle times ahead for both of them! Take care, my friend, the distance doesn't dilute the devotion. The Truth is realized in an instant, the act is practiced step by step.

Everything'll be alright...

Hal, my pop went through the same procedure 2 years ago and all went well. I am sure the same'll be true for your dad and you too - a prayer for you bro'! Cherish every moment... Unclejon "when life looks like easy street, there is danger at your door"

Hal , healing beams for your father

I just seen this , my father in-law just had a 6 by-pass heart surgery a few months ago , he is still recovering but he smoke ciggs too , so .. but he is doing well despite the smokes , am sure your father will be fine . We are wishing your father positive healing beams !! and also positive strong beams of strength to your mother and the entire Hal R familly !! Take care brother Hal ... and while i`m here , Johnman , this is what we are here for ,, each other !! positive vibes to all in need !! Peace & sunshine ... Stu ...