Comments

sort by
Recent
Reset
  • BobbaLee
    Default Avatar
    Joined:
    Giant Vibrating eternal hugs
    Mornduvt Our thoughts are with you and your son. Speaking from 20 years experience of listening to my wife Candy(PHd and currently has 3 people on suicide watch) work with many who thought life would be better if they ended it--It won't be. Your friends and parents will never get over it. The pain many think goes away by taking that step comes back and hurts those that really care multiplied uncountable times. Perhaps suggesting that your son become a student counselor to work with fellow students may bring something meaningful and helpful out of this tragedy. Watch the movie "Ordinary People" and talk about it .Your son probably also may harbor feelings of anger at his friend and perhaps feels guilty about it. I am going to sound harsh and if I offend don't take it personally.- Suicide is a selfish act. It is one thing to be in terrible physical pain 80 years old with nothing to look forward to. Adolescent suicide is usually an act of anger towards those people which the child is having a conflict with. It may be no fault of the child and unfair (in the case of bullying) however killing one self is not the answer.It most cases therapy or a very brief hospital stay and willingness to work on improving things would be far better. Sometimes chemical imbalances may account for the depression but not always. If you want to talk off line let me know. And the road goes on forever.... BobbaLee
  • noonie
    Default Avatar
    Joined:
    mornduvt
    a giant hug to all who knew this boy. My prayers go out to his family and yours.
  • TigerLilly
    Joined:
    mornduvt
    Your poor kid! Peace and healing vibes to your son, the family, and your entire community. Such a thing is bewilderingly painful, I KNOW. Strength to you too, to be there to support your son, but sounds like you got that aplenty!********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
  • Linder
    Joined:
    Mornduvt
    Light, prayers and healing hugs to your son, family - all the families! I am sorry.
  • johnman
    Joined:
    mornduvt
    i can't imagine....no.......i can't....i'll say an extra prayer for all of you. what a monumental bummer....healing vibes to you and yours.........
  • marye
    Joined:
    morn
    so sorry to hear this, and comfort to all who loved this kid.
  • Steve-O
    Joined:
    Mornduvt
    A big hug goes out to your boy. Some things in life I guess are never meant to be understood.Peace
  • Mr. Pid
    Joined:
    Mornduvt
    Warm healing thoughts for you, your son and your whole town. I hope your son's friend at least found the peace he was seeking. Pay attention to your friends, folks. You never know when that funny snort, that odd glance, that moment of wry introspection is really a signal of Something Deeper. Just because it's usually nothing serious doesn't mean that this might not be that one time when all they really needs is a genuine smile from a friend to get them back in the game. Smile on your brother, and your sister, too. Try to love one another right now. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
  • free idea
    Joined:
    Cosmic hug
    Hey Mornduvt, I will keep all of you in my thoughts
  • Mornduvt
    Default Avatar
    Joined:
    Tough times for teenage son
    Hey Now Friends I am asking for some good vibes for my teenage son, and my whole community. Sorry if this is long-winded. My son has always loved the GD music I played (constantly) - I sang him to sleep (badly) with Ripple when he was a baby & he used to make me rewind Fire on the Mountain and play it over and over when he was about four. He had always said how bummed out he was that he would never get to see the Grateful Dead and have that experience. So when the current Dead tour came around we got some cheap "at least I'm in the show" tix for Albany and Sunday in Worcester. We had a fantastic time. Both shows were fun and he said the Scarlet Fire on Sunday was one of the happiest moments of his life. On Monday that good vibe was shattered. As we were driving home to our small town he received a text message informing him that a friend of his had taken his own life over the weekend. My son was / is devastated. He says that the greatest day of his life was followed by the worst. He can't make sense of it, and neither can I, or anyone else in our community. This was a brilliant, talented, well-liked kid, and nobody can understand how this could happen. So I'm calling out for a cosmic hug for my boy... but also my whole town, and the family of the boy who took his life. I can not begin to imagine what they are going through. Peace to all ~ hug your kids...
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Forums
Need 'em? Got 'em to share? Post here.
user picture

Member for

16 years 3 months
Permalink

by the rule of Love and Light, Harmony is the Law of the Universe
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

all my best positive thoughts for you...i'll go with blind faith and 4 steve-o's mom all good thoughts for you , and a good hug for you steve! peace2all
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

all my best positive thoughts for you...i'll go with blind faith and 4 steve-o's mom all good thoughts for you , and a good hug for you steve! peace2all
user picture

Member for

16 years 11 months
Permalink

For Steve-O, his mom, PK and Julee as well. Peace and strength. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
user picture

Member for

17 years
Permalink

To all in need. We'll get by with a little help from our friends, no doubt !! PEACE
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

For pk and julee. I've been home from work now for about 2hrs. and still haven't heard any news about my mom. I'm thinking no news is good news at this point. Just trying to stay positive.Peace
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

16 years 3 months
Permalink

hey now,This was just posted on the PKPotter vine, don't think I'm violating a copyright by pasting it in here ;^D ************************************************** Hello everyone! I just wanted to let you know that we are home from the hospital. Everything went well--the doctor is extremely positive. PK has been asleep for a while now, which is good. I thought I'd take this time to thank all of you--and we could definitely feel you there with us!! Thank you for being here! Julee **************************************
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

Grate to hear that, and positive healing vibes to you both!Good news from my dad and sister, my mom made it through the surgery and is awake and resting. The surgeon didn't have to much to say about the prognosis, but did say it was a very large tumor and a very difficult surgery. I think he will have more to say tomorrow when he can talk to my mom and dad together. I'm taking a 1/2 day tomorrow so I can go see her. I will keep you posted. Thanks Everyone!!!!!! Peace
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

17 years 3 months
Permalink

I am so glad to hear your mom made it through. When you go see her give her a hug for me.
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 10 months
Permalink

Thats great news to hear about your mother!!! I hope she has a full recovery and lives in good health afterwards._-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_Some good vibes for you and your mother and brother, I live in Akron, so i'm not that far from Clevelan bro., check out nelsons ledges this summer if you get a chance bro! Phatmoye
user picture

Member for

17 years 4 months
Permalink

Strong healing vibes to both of you! Warm energy for a full recovery. Will keep you in my thoughts.********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
user picture

Member for

16 years 3 months
Permalink

Seeing al of our sweet natures together in thoughtis a very powerful and touching sight.. Continued best thoughts to all.
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

Went to visit my mom today, she's in alot of pain but is resting well!!!! I happened to be with my mom when her chief surgeon came in to see her. He feels very good about the surgery and thinks he got all the tumor, but said we'll see in about a week or so when they recheck her!!!! He talked about getting a better grip on her pain and if they could do that they might make her sit up in a chair for a little while tonight!!!! He also said they will be moving her out of icu tomorrow and moving her to the step down unit!!!! A huge weight has been lifted!!!Thanks Everyone Peace
user picture

Member for

16 years 10 months
Permalink

my cake and cookies...if it will help anyone here.....healing and loving vibes to all who need them, and quickly dammit!!
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 10 months
Permalink

You truly have 1 of the BIGGEST hearts I know. Thats great news to hear about Steveos mother. Full recovery vibes go out to Steveos mom._-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-_-PEACE______--------______------ Phatmoye
user picture

Member for

16 years 1 month
Permalink

YOU ROCK! I love you all. _____________________________________________ Will you come with me? Once in awhile you can get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right!
user picture

Member for

16 years 1 month
Permalink

I used to know these people that didn't know about life. They were blind and dirty, they asked me for a dime, a dime for a cup of coffee. I said, "I got no dime, for A CUP of coffee?! Right on brother! Everyone says, I come to no good. _____________________________________________ Will you come with me? Once in awhile you can get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right!
user picture

Member for

16 years 1 month
Permalink

True to my dying DAISY! bb gun_____________________________________________ Will you come with me? Once in awhile you can get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right!
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

17 years
Permalink

Steve-o`s Mom , I wish you strong healing vibes and to our PK , i wish you strong healing vibes also !! And I would like to wish very strong sweet vibes to everyone who needs them !! Including my self , if i could beleive anything i tell my self ,lol .. "We will get by we will survive" .... in these times of econonic turmoil those words are easier said then beleived , and thats sad !! my problmes are to much to list ,,, I just hope life would get just a little bit easier on us .. and for everyone !! Peace & sunshine beams to all !! much love ,,,, Stu ....
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

To you Stuman, and thanks for the kind words! The News gets better, I'm planning on spending the day with my mom and dad tomorrow. My sister called and told me to stop and get my moms bathrobe before I go up to see her tomorrow as they are planning on getting her up and walking around tomorrow! I can't wait!!!Thanks Everyone Peace
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

from me to PK and Steve-O's mom. May they both be healed and strong. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

Thoughts of strength and comfort to steve-o's mom. Thinking of you and knowing your loving spirit will shine through her. You can feel the love and outpouring of support from this wonderful place. The folks here will always be with you.And thank you all, so much, for all your love and support. I can't possibly say enough to let you all know how much you mean to me. You know there are times in this life when you look back down the path and see the most wonderful and enlightening souls and realize how lucky you have been to have shared some of the most beautiful moments in time with them. Thank you all for that. peace,love & hope, pk
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

17 years 4 months
Permalink

who need them coming your way>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>send some back too please in need myself..... sometimes life just gets to hard to handle... Send more to my friend Dave who is still in a coma!!! Everyone needs some help now and then! Peace
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

17 years 3 months
Permalink

here comes sunshine...vibes..to all who need them.wa..wa.. wa...wa.....wa... ommmmm... ommmmm. may all beings be free from suffering
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

and thanks for all of your kind thoughts and expressions with my Uncle Bus's passing. Unfortunately his wife, my wonderful Aunt who stood with him these last 6 + decades, recently had surgery (she had delayed this because of Bus' dying) and then she had a stroke that night..... anyway she is still struggling so with her grief, and now with her loss of words or avenue to express herself. It is so hard for her and I hope that she can recover to live her days well, or if it be her time, that she could "go gently into that good night". If I might tap into this wonderful well of vibes again, please send her your beams of wellness or of finality. Whichever it will be....take care............ The Truth is realized in an instant, the act is practiced step by step.
user picture

Member for

17 years 4 months
Permalink

Of course! Full recovery and peace vibes for your aunt. How sad that she has suffered so much, and I wish her all the best. ********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
user picture

Member for

16 years 3 months
Permalink

it comes standard on all models : ) : ) : ) peace love music, free idea
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

Positive vibes to pk, sounds like you're doing grate!! To gigi and your friend dave, because yes we all do need a little support from time to time!! Oroboros, sending well beams to you and your aunt!! Thanks everyone for the powerful beams you sent to my mom. She may be coming home mon. or tues. Hopefully!!Peace
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

My Mom came home today!!! She called and said how good it felt to be home, but is still trying to get her sea legs back. Wants to see her grandson badly, she hasn't seen him for 2 weeks now. Them beams sure are powerful here. Thanks Again!Peace
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 10 months
Permalink

Hello - just had a minute to see the most recent posts - but prayers and blessings are sent out to you all - life can throw us so many obstacles. May God be with you all now and may peace flow through you...
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 10 months
Permalink

Specifically - prayers out to you - the Kid - with your dog's battle with cancer. Thank goodness for the wonderful world of medicine for animals! And to you Mcb28 - I will pray for the surgery to go well and the recovery too!
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 10 months
Permalink

Hi all~please say prayers for my brother, Elliot - who will be going into the National Guard for his boot camp training next week. He had wanted to join the Marines about 10 years ago, and my dear mama and I talked him out of it...well, he's not a kid anymore, and he has the right to do as he chooses - so as much as I respect his decisions - and as grateful as I am for his motives for joining - I can't say that I am happy to see him go, and much less - to see him deploy for a possible overseas tour next year, which seems to be what he wants... Although I can't understand how he would want to do this - at least, not completely, I love and respect him dearly and I just want him to be safe and come home safely... Prayers and blessings please, as he is a very strong but sensitive soul and it's just so scary what's happening around the world... Thank you very much!
user picture

Member for

16 years 10 months
Permalink

it can be as hard to have a warrior in the family as it is to be one.....you want to keep them safe and still respect their decision......all you can really do is love them, support them as much as you can...and pray for their safe return......we have alot of young souls in harms way AGAIN.....and this is all we can really do for them....i'll help with the prayers as much as i can....just remember...right or wrong...they still need your love and respect...it's a tough decision that is sometimes made without forethought.............
user picture

Member for

16 years 10 months
Permalink

has recently discovered that the mother of his friend AJ has multiple cancer, including breast, and came into the chat asking for prayers....healing vibes out to AJ's mom along with heartfelt thoughts.......kinda grabbed me as i read his request.......yesterday was my mom's bday and i lost her to a brain tumor.....pls pray for all mom's and most especially AJ's in her hour of need
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

16 years
Permalink

Lot's of prayers and positive vibes for them, I lost my mom to ovarian cancer. . .lot's of positive vibes to you johnman as you're remembering your mom. . . Glad your mom is home Steve-O! And positive vibes to all in need including Gypsy Cowgirl and her friend with cancer, Oroboros's aunt, Gigi and her friend Dave and my friend Richard who is still in so much pain after his surgery.
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

17 years 3 months
Permalink

sending out healing vibes and prayers cause nobody loves you like your mom....
user picture

Member for

16 years 10 months
Permalink

is in the hospital with a bad infection....please send him lotsa healing vibes and prayers!!! point them towards iowa!!
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

17 years
Permalink

Big positive get well beams from Fl to IA !!
user picture

Member for

15 years 8 months
Permalink

Well, I want to go to as many dead shows as I can but, I have no tickets and very little money saved for these spring shows. I'm going anyways but, I need a miracle!! 

Deadheads don't fall, they keep trippin' :)

user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 10 months
Permalink

POSITIVE VIBES FOR YOUR JOURNEYhope to see you in the lot!! "Theres a band out on the highway,Their high steppin into town, Its a rainbow full of sounds, and it's fire works, calliopes and clowns, And everybodys DANCIN!"
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

headed to Hawk! and miracles to 724 also!
user picture

Member for

16 years 1 month
Permalink

To the Hawkster and I'll try to keep the updates on how you are doing. May you be Grateful for what you do have brother. And may you find that Golden Road To Unlimited Devotion during you're stay. Try and have a wonderful day. ~peace~ _____________________________________________ Will you come with me? Once in awhile you can get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right!
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 10 months
Permalink

Please everyone!! Send some positive vibes for Parcher. I think hes got his prioraties about dead.net quite mixed up. May you find peace in your soul Parcher.
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

17 years 3 months
Permalink

go out to hawk. may you your sickness go away and never return.
user picture
Default Avatar

Member for

15 years 8 months
Permalink

peace/love Michael I like many people know how the death of a pet is as real as any death of someone you love and are close too. I remember summer tour of '93 my pomeranian "Miss muffit" the little grateful dead bear died with me on tour. I remember having her remains cremated, and smuggling her ashes into the Buffalo, NY show just as I made it into the show, the band was doing the refrain: "Ashes to Ashes,all fall down!!!!! and right then and there I scattered the ashes, I always treasure this act, man how I would love to go out like that!!!!
user picture

Member for

17 years 5 months
Permalink

as we've been away, I haven't checked in here for a long while, so first, I'd like to extend sincere condolences to Oroboros and ++++++++ vibes to everyone else and to all. gotta do a u-turn. just when i thought we was on the way back, a 'family' member of ours needs help so that is what is the priority now. please send positive vibes for a wonderful lady we love and cherish, kidney failure creeping in on the one kidney she has that still works a bit. diabetis and a big stone complicate things, not to mention the fact she lost most of her insides to cancer 15 years ago. tough woman in spirit and the KINDEST person you might ever meet. she beat the cancer, has 2 colostomy bags as a result, one for pee and one for poop... the poop is backing up in poisen, creatinine levels way too high; lcuky foor her, my old lady is a quick study on nutrition and how to cook an extremely complicated diet to reduce her protein levels and whatever other stuff that I don't rightly understand. She was in hospital for a few weeks, home now with people who love her and more HELP is ON THE WAY. she is the one who taught my old lady her own philosophy of life and I am still learning them lessons myself: 'go with the flow of the river, just keep your head above water' she needs our help more than we need the tour, so thatis where it's at right now. what another month may bring? hopefully better health and more strength. her heart isn't strong enough to start dialysis now. dialysis will be on the agenda as time goes by. +++++++++ vibes for all!! love and peace. cc