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    marye
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    So, we've all had some great conversations interrupted by that misbehaving chatroom lately. Mr. Pid wrote a great song on the subject...

    Feel free to pick them up again here. Or report your more surreal episodes of being booted for misbehaving. 

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  • mona
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    hey
    vvhat johnman said :)
  • JackstrawfromC…
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    My experience
    With chat rooms and not necessarily at dead.net is that the people who are shady i.e. pose threats are in fact juveniles in the 10-12 year old range. It doesn't mean there isn't a more sinister plot going on too but the majority are kids being stupid. After watching what they write for awhile it is painfully obvious what their age is.. "Here's my half a dollar if you dare .. double twist when you hit the air. Look at Julie down below .. the levee doing the dopaso"
  • marye
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    yeah
    the logging thing is available to one and all. But the fact that people are getting into the chatroom without logging onto Dead.net is a problem.
  • cosmicbadger
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    some thoughts
    Thank you Marye. I am sure everyone appreciates deadnet hosting the Chatroom and as Swan has mentioned, it is not an issue of permanent moderation: in general conflicts have been sorted out pretty quick there. But the lack of security makes it far too easy for those few people with bad intentions to exploit and abuse others. In fact have now discovered just how easy it is to ‘break into’ the chatroom from outside. My understanding is that Gagalive is a free internet Chatroom service that has been embedded in deadnet and that it could be hard for Deadnet to impose its own additional security on it. But I am not an expert on these things. It has also dawned on me that as long as you are logged into the CR you can scroll back through (and therefore copy/paste) all the chat from the moment you logged in. So if you stay anonymously logged on for hours or days from the outside (like some people appear to do) you may be able just to copy everything that has gone on. I was going to do an experiment to test this, but eavesdropping even for a few moments makes me feel really bad, so I won’t. If the chat record has a much shorter life (a few minutes) it might make systematic logging much more hassle. Hope this helps CB
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    may i suggest ideas about chatroom's safety
    for sure i want this chat room to keep going , and want topics to be discussed without " politically correct " restrains about opinions . The real urgency , methinks, is about safety settings in 3 easy steps ; 1) anyone wanting access to chatroom must be fist logged in at dead.net and 2) must first be a registered member with dead.net (with a valid e-mail) , and 3) gagalive/deadnet must install specific settings to not allow access to chatplace by bypassing login and registration at deadnet . These can be practical answers for safety , and to complete this format , a once prior agreement that anyone using chatroom is responsable to never send bugs and viruses at users of dead.net , nonrespect of that clause leading to definite expulsion from dead.net .
  • marye
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    guys
    I'm reporting this to see if there's anything we can do. I don't want to shut the chat room down, for example, so better to figure out something more reasonable. As many have noted, no, threatening people is not okay, nor is misrepresenting yourself as a Rhino employee (or anyone else) to do so.
  • johnman
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    it's with sadness
    that i read these posts. i have had good and bad experiences in our chatroom, recently very good things have come my way FROM the chatroom, tickets and a hotel room to be exact, so i know there are still good, loving kind folks there. we don't always hafta agree on certain subjects or topics, and there are some that i intentionally avoid discussing in there because i know we don't all have the same point of view. the one thing we DO share is love for the music. other than prayer, the music has been the one constant in my life that i can turn to when i just can't take it anymore. please, any of you that are thinking about leaving us, please, please reconsider. if we keep enough kind folk in there, and commit to not dragging others down with our personal problems (and yes, i am one of those that is guilty of doing this, not intentionally but the chat is my refuge) mebbe we can outweigh the people who don't love the site as much as we do......badger, i'm gonna miss your kind thoughts and words, hopefully you will still use the forums? i love all of you more than you know....you are my FAMILY!!!
  • DancingSingingGirl
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    Cosmic Badger KA Swan
    Using a photo or scripts from the chatroom to harm others is an awful practice/ game and should not be allowed. I was told that recently, things that I had said, in " Play " an 'Imaginative spacey conversation we were having,' was re-posted elsewhere with some important content changed, someone had changed my words, to cause a very hurtful situation ! I know that this has happened to thers as well. I agree it is slander. We love the chatroom and mostly we love sharing The Grateful Deads Music in there... It should not be a tool, used to harm and manipulate others ! play on
  • stuman
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    again reasons I DO NOT use chatroom
    Badger , swan , frankly you said it all . lets get rid of gagalive and make it a Dead.net MEBERS ONLY thing . I for one do not want to talk to folks who are mean and or just not like minded as we all are . I would be more then happy to come back to the chatroom .
  • cosmicbadger
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    I am sorry TL and Mona and
    I am sorry TL and Mona and Swan and everyone else, but I am not going near that place again until I can be more confident that i) it is reasonably secure ii) people who use it are identifiable and accountable iii) it is not being taken over by hackers iv) our conversations are not being recorded and manipulated and v) my computer is not vulnerable to attack (the consequences would be catastrophic for me) Some or all of the the claims and threats that have been made may very well be utter bullshit. I don’t know enough about computers to know, and I am not sure how these concerns can be addressed by 'toughing it out' from inside the chatroom. Still, there must be other ways to fix this. By hosting the chatroom for the registered members of the site, Deadnet must have some responsibility for its security. Especially since the main protagonist has even claimed that he is an ‘insider’ who works for Rhino!!
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So, we've all had some great conversations interrupted by that misbehaving chatroom lately. Mr. Pid wrote a great song on the subject...

Feel free to pick them up again here. Or report your more surreal episodes of being booted for misbehaving. 

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pretty silly, huh?
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I guess the point was, misunderstood? or taken out of context. ? Not about whether or not you experienced the Grateful Dead OR HOW MANY SHOWS YOU WENT TO, but is about the folks that came into the Chatroom ( this IS The Grateful Dead Website) just to play ' chat games', and mess with people, and hack - day after day and they never would talk about the music. ! .thats all. c'mon... I think you know what I meant... either way, there's 4 original Grateful Dead members out there touring- right now, making some historic music, sure would love to be able to chat about that ! but -we are getting by -with texts and the forums and FB pages :)) we need a place here to post the current show reviews and current set lists. OO play on- KEEP LISTENING
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A large part of this grateful dead thing is family of course the main thing is music but family talk about other things,their lifes,the weather,their children,its all a part of relationship building.Im pretty sure theres threads in here about further and the rythm devils if not you start them sister i will be more than happy too get involved in anything dead related.
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that the chatroom has always been a non-topic restricted conversational flow (relationship building just like ripple said) since day one. And it will always be like that. Music AND whatever comes to mind. Think of it like a conversational jam! Conversations flows and twists JUST like the music does. If our "approved topics" lists are restricted, it will stifle the room. ********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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Hey DSG if you wan't to talk about the music, talk about the music. You want to post reviews and setliests I would love to see them on the Furthur forum. If you want a new forum to post them ask Marye. Nobody should put you down for your passion and your head full of dead, but lots of us dont have the chance to see so many shows as you and, well you know, if we weren't there its a little hard for us to have a conversation about it. So we talk about other stuff too..and come on DSG...don't pretend you dont talk about other stuff in the Chatroom too :-) Its a drag when people get nasty and personal in the chatroom for sure and it gets me down too. But most folks are kind and if they step over the line are quick to apologise. I for one will be glad to meet up with you there when it is back on line and don't forget Donna Jean too!
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but there were times when people ...again, I won't point fingers...would be there just to complain about NOT getting on stage, or bragging in a sideways sort of manner about how many shows they had seen this year, or "so and so is out to get me", or "I spent X amount of dollars on tickets this year". That kinda stuff chased alotta people outa the chatroom. so, I'm hoping that when and if we get the chat back that crap will stay HOME or SOMEwhere else at least. wagwagwagwagwagwagwagwagwag....(waving paw) Time to look for a cooookie.....
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Cookies are a great topic anywhere and everywhere!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cake too.********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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is easier than herding Heads. You can't control the flow. Kinda the other way around. If what you want is a mindless groupie site filled with nothing but flacks spewing about how great their hero is, I'm sure there must be a Justin Bieber forum out there somewhere. Not that I've looked for one or anything... People everywhere just got to be free! Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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I like hearing reviews of shows. Debating stuff about them is fun too. But that does not happen on this site much anymore. It did during the Dead 2009 tour but not so much with Furthur. I avoid chat rooms because I think they are creepy in a sense. Plus people's egos usually get in the way and that's where you get the putting people down, and other ugliness. Trust me non-DeadHeads show up with a goal of pushing the envelope and getting under your skin. So from that angle I agree with DSG. "The dire wolf collects his due while the boys sing round the fire"
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I just wanted to say how much i miss the chatroom and all of my dead.net family that i have grown to love over the last year.There is the occasional argument,some disagreements,and sometimes conversation gets a little weird,but that happens everywhere.We are all different and sometimes rub each other the wrong way,but mostly just enjoy each others company and conversation.I can just hope that the site will put a chatroom back up for us so that we can reconnect.In the meantime,i hope all my dead.net family is healthy,happy,and enjoying the music we have all enjoyed for so many years.I wish all of you peace love and prosperity until we meet again.
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that we're not "talking" to each via the chatroom...how the hell is everybody???
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could be worse...no use complaining....
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dunno why my post showed up above yours GC....it was in response...
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same time, same station maybe? How do u like my new profile pix of my granddaughter & Cosmic Charlie (the dog).......:)))
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wish I could see it better, though....
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Has anyone heard any rumors yet about a New Years Eve show?
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The chatroom was a great place to hang out. Kind of like therapy for me. Is it coming back??!!
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Folks, this is definitely on the radar. However, the tech wizard who was working on this had a family emergency, so progress is delayed. It will be fixed, just not as fast as many would like, sorry.
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I finally create a new user ~ it's me rider~ ( no dupe) & can't even chat with my dear folks I've missed so much!! I now have semi- regular internet access WHOO HOO !!!Hope everyone is having a groovy 1st day of fall. Can't believe summers done come & gone....HELLS BELLS! xoxoxoxoxo rider
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welcome home! Pull up a chair and open a bottle. Cookies in the oven will be ready soon. Now lets put on some music...
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We missed you girl! SO glad to see you got z internet again.♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥ Twirly Banner
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Leanne, Hello, hows ya :) All wot Badger said n more :) Hokay, pull up a chair n crack open the bottle n take a sip..pass the cookies to Johnman :) Keep dancing :)
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well....ok...i'll admit I knew where you were and that you are safe...but it just sounds so cool.....RIIIIIIIIIIDEERRRRR!!!!!!!!!!!
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did you ever make it out to SF?
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I hope the chat room doesn't crash with too many plp when it comes back......seems it's been missed....xoxo
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Well the chatroom is still down,but i wanted to say hey now to all my deadnet chatroom family again.I miss y'all very much and hope we will have our room back soon because i really miss it.Anyways,peace love and prosperity to you and keep on keepin on because the music never stops....
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Seems we have had some good luck with the IRC chatrooms, free, quick and easy on the slower puters...what do you think?♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥ Twirly Banner
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the tech stuff is pretty much outside my universe...
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... uh ... mmmh ... ah ... let me see ..... ah...... OH ! Yea ....! Now I remember Well Hell , .. Do yall miss me .? .. ah ... uh U-know since ye ole' yak room has been 100% snafu . I miss not being able to visit every now and then with dat famous land luber and armchair buccaneer "Ahoy Ye Matee' " ....JM...... you know who.. Argh ! And whats been happening in Portland O .. ? I don't know and it driving me crazy ... Because I can not yak it up with my OR .. Pear connection on the coast ..msmona.. Why must we suffer .... this cruel fait ... I mean like Gee Wiz, ... dude .. ! Whatsamotta University was invaluable ...... it has no value.. ah ... uh ..... Lets get Donald Draper in here and straighten this thing out... Because I'm drifting ..... drifting ... En art comme en amour, Ii'nstinct suffit.
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it'll be all right, tejas...........land lubber, huh?....I am an honorable and trusty Shellback, I'll have you know....arrrrr....
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It has been brought to my attention that Donald Draper will NOT be helping us with our problems...... He has made it quite clear .. That not only ' he ' .. but no one from his firm Sterling Cooper Draper Price ... will be offering any advice or services to ... uh ... As he put it "Hippies" ... uh.... Ah well ... hmmm.....So that about sez it all to what Madison Avenue has to say about ...GD.net .. of course ..... I don't agree ...But its not up to me...uh .. I'm just the messenger ... ah ... uh.. En art comme en amour, Ii'nstinct suffit.
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can kiss my hippie...................you all know the rest.
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you have your own hippie?...what do you feed it?....ya must spend a fortune on grilled cheese....save money on haircuts, though..........is that a cookie?...can i have it?
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that the flying monkeys keep ripple's hippy well supplied with beer for with the grilled cheese and cookies.********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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I bet you he keeps his hippy in a yurt.********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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Eureka! You have solved the mystery of why the flying monkeys have been scarce lately! (slaps forehead) They've gone into brewing beer, and then when there's enough stock on hand they'll start delivering again.********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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doesn't show them actually brewing.....and they're more know for stealing then delivering....mebbe they are hiding in the yurt with ripple's pet hippie....do they grow spelt in Mongolia?? hey ripple....whatcha doin' in Mongolia, anyway?
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the Saga of ripple's yurt-residing hippy is going to bloom and grow. It's just too much fun to say ripple's hippy! :D********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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Glad to be of service in solving the mystery. I was actually drinking some of that brew last night, for the first time, had never seen it before. I took one look at the label and started laughing...and we launched into this big Wizard of Oz didn't-the-flying-monkeys-scare-the-pants-off-you-when-you-were-a-kid jag. (They scare the pants off me to this day). But Johnman's right, I don't know what that monkey is doing in the wheatfield, looking sinister as flying monkeys are wont to do. No hippies in sight, but it looks like there's a flock of flyers in the background circling around SOMETHING. I'll need to drink some more to get to the bottom of it...the bottle, that is.
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I've seen in a long time! Miss you chatters...for now.... ♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥~♥ Twirly Banner
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"you have lost your mind"........hahaa=so funny......