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  • BobbaLee
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    Mornduvt Our thoughts are with you and your son. Speaking from 20 years experience of listening to my wife Candy(PHd and currently has 3 people on suicide watch) work with many who thought life would be better if they ended it--It won't be. Your friends and parents will never get over it. The pain many think goes away by taking that step comes back and hurts those that really care multiplied uncountable times. Perhaps suggesting that your son become a student counselor to work with fellow students may bring something meaningful and helpful out of this tragedy. Watch the movie "Ordinary People" and talk about it .Your son probably also may harbor feelings of anger at his friend and perhaps feels guilty about it. I am going to sound harsh and if I offend don't take it personally.- Suicide is a selfish act. It is one thing to be in terrible physical pain 80 years old with nothing to look forward to. Adolescent suicide is usually an act of anger towards those people which the child is having a conflict with. It may be no fault of the child and unfair (in the case of bullying) however killing one self is not the answer.It most cases therapy or a very brief hospital stay and willingness to work on improving things would be far better. Sometimes chemical imbalances may account for the depression but not always. If you want to talk off line let me know. And the road goes on forever.... BobbaLee
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    a giant hug to all who knew this boy. My prayers go out to his family and yours.
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    Your poor kid! Peace and healing vibes to your son, the family, and your entire community. Such a thing is bewilderingly painful, I KNOW. Strength to you too, to be there to support your son, but sounds like you got that aplenty!********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
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    Light, prayers and healing hugs to your son, family - all the families! I am sorry.
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    i can't imagine....no.......i can't....i'll say an extra prayer for all of you. what a monumental bummer....healing vibes to you and yours.........
  • marye
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    so sorry to hear this, and comfort to all who loved this kid.
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    A big hug goes out to your boy. Some things in life I guess are never meant to be understood.Peace
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    Warm healing thoughts for you, your son and your whole town. I hope your son's friend at least found the peace he was seeking. Pay attention to your friends, folks. You never know when that funny snort, that odd glance, that moment of wry introspection is really a signal of Something Deeper. Just because it's usually nothing serious doesn't mean that this might not be that one time when all they really needs is a genuine smile from a friend to get them back in the game. Smile on your brother, and your sister, too. Try to love one another right now. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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    Hey Mornduvt, I will keep all of you in my thoughts
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    Hey Now Friends I am asking for some good vibes for my teenage son, and my whole community. Sorry if this is long-winded. My son has always loved the GD music I played (constantly) - I sang him to sleep (badly) with Ripple when he was a baby & he used to make me rewind Fire on the Mountain and play it over and over when he was about four. He had always said how bummed out he was that he would never get to see the Grateful Dead and have that experience. So when the current Dead tour came around we got some cheap "at least I'm in the show" tix for Albany and Sunday in Worcester. We had a fantastic time. Both shows were fun and he said the Scarlet Fire on Sunday was one of the happiest moments of his life. On Monday that good vibe was shattered. As we were driving home to our small town he received a text message informing him that a friend of his had taken his own life over the weekend. My son was / is devastated. He says that the greatest day of his life was followed by the worst. He can't make sense of it, and neither can I, or anyone else in our community. This was a brilliant, talented, well-liked kid, and nobody can understand how this could happen. So I'm calling out for a cosmic hug for my boy... but also my whole town, and the family of the boy who took his life. I can not begin to imagine what they are going through. Peace to all ~ hug your kids...
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and hope Imena is feeling a good deal more herself this morning!
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Healing vibes to Imena, may that big smile of hers return quickly. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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To TL & her family :) When I think of Imena I envision a picture of her with roller blades~ kid knees ha ha & the one where's she's wearing an AWESOME Pirate Suit....... GET WELL MATEY !! & to everyone else ~ ((((( HUGGGSSSS)))))))) PEACE
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Okay,the ice cream and the pigmy pony didn't do the trick....So here is a huge dose of vibrational healing turtle medicine flying over land and sea to Imena and her mother.I hope it helps,get real well,real soon....
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Sending golden light and rose quartz light to Imena, TL and family
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Such warm kind wishes from "people who don't even know me", as Imena put it; mean a whole lot to us!!!!!! I dreamed this morning that I was bringing her home, and she texted me a message that said "I feel better and now I want to sleep. I will call you when I wake up". I am chosing to think that both of those are a good sign. ********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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a happy homecoming and a complete recovery!
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I saw recent photos of him on the news tonight, and he needs our vibes in his fight against prostate cancer. He's barely 100 lbs and looked soo feeble it made me tear up.********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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My Dad is 64 years old. We just found out around Valentine's Day this year, that he has a tumor in his throat that contains cancer. He's on chemo & radiation right now. It saddens me to see him losing weight and feeling weak. He has his good & bad days. Doctors say he's only got 3 years to live with treatment, of course they can be wrong. Praying for a hope! Positive vibes needed, prayers too! Thanks
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healing vibes out to yer dad...............!!!!!!!!
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...in the Gulf. Imagine the vents closing one by one in an orderly sequence at a slow enough rate that the main shaft does not spring additional leaks. Imagine that for the first time in 80 odd days there is no longer a single drop of oil from this platform escaping into the Gulf. Imagine that the misery and worrying of all Gulf Residents is lessened by this event and that each day things get better and better in the Gulf. Wish that all the animals survive and repopulate the effected region. May all be healed, healed H E A L E D!!!
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Now send positive vibes to all the Gulf Coast residents. Imagine them all with their first six month check from BP. Imagine their worry and tension dissolving. May they all be healed and find a new way of being in the world.
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Thanks Lamagonzo and Johnman for bumpin' up the healing vibes. As long as one suffers we all suffer. Count me in....Vibrations on, full stream of head....
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to Tigerlilly's kitty.....and lotsa love to Tiger, too!!....you are in my thoughts and prayers.....
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and Gonzo from the other thread-thanks!********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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ATTENTION ALL FAMILY: A great kid needs your help! I'm Mindy, my fiance Chris from Conneticut, one of the kindest realiest kids was popped on some old warrants on the way into Moe DOWN, Chris has had some very bad luck in his life. He has spent the past 2 years in the hospital, he has had 2 open heart surgerys, a heart attack and a stroke at 27, all caused by an abbcessed tooth. I thought because of his medical conditions they wouldn't keep him in jail, but they came down from a 9 month sentence or 5k fine to 90 days or 1k fine, but he isn't getting the medical attention he needs, I have to get him out. Fortunately for me some great family, Woodstock Ron from Utica took me in. but we haven't been able to come up with the bail money. I need to get him out as soon as possible and was hoping that if any of you kind dead folks here could help out with donations it would be gratefully appreciated. Any amount will help and would be payed forward. You can send donations to Mindy Riffle at 1610 Sunset ave. Utica Ny. 13502. I hope that we can get Chris out, get him to his many doctors,get him some rest and then see you all on November tour. Forever Grateful, Mindy
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A couple weeks ago I announced on another forum that my son had informed me he and his wife were expecting. Sadly, he called me today to tell me his wife had a miscarriage. They are obviously hurting and could use some positive vibes. My son's name is Paul and his wife is Jess. Thanks for your thoughts and prayers.
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as usual, when I start feeling sorry for myself, I'm reminded that there are others hurting even more...I'm so sorry tphokie1, my heart and thoughts and prayers go out to your son and his wife...
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best thoughts to all, rise up "under the sheltering wings of the Almighty"
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way from across the seas much love and peace to hokie1, jess,paul other friends and family.
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healing vibes to you and your family tphokie! While we're at it, could we also vibe Geeky McSquare, who is suffering a very risky pregnancy. Take care o that lil gal in your belly Geeky, and yourself! ********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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I know they've made a difference! Talked to Paul today and he and Jess are doing much better than yesterday. I'm sure your positive energy is part of that! We're sending out positive vibes to Geeky. God bless you all!
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you to hokie1peace.
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As someone who is disabled and has way to many physical issues. I need to ty all. Every little comment like that makes up for all the Negative. I let Society and MYSLF beat me up. Way to much and too often. It means so much to hear or read a kind word. To even have someone think of you is Way fuckin kool.( Even in a Generic way) I go way to long with out Hearing human voices, Besides recorded ones. Im not saying this for any reason but for people to say hi de ho to some that you may not know are hurting. Everyone does. dam qouted Micahel Stipes lol? B=my best friends hero who passed in 04. My problem i do not let people in i am afraid of people . Not Physcially. My Heart. Been Betrayed too many times. But as john says i say it all the time There are people who have it worst then me. So when it seem's like im being a complete,almost complete ass please. FOR GIVE ME PLEASE. I do not know how to be alone anymore. As i am typing i keep erasing but the tears say keep typing gotta let it out somehow. This sucks. Oh well blessings to all. My problems are small i can help others and carry on. Truly Embarrassed but going to post anyways. Just cause im told to Yes i hear voices and we disagree most of the Time :):):) Since they are usually wrong:):) May the creator and all Positive things move in to comfort all and may your moment be Brighter warmer and Hug some one if someone is around. Dont isolate and make your self afraid of human touch as i am now WTF too much info lmao. Guess i needed this. Do For Other's you Will Feel Better!!! Guaranteed
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back to your regularly scheduled positive vibes.
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good vibes to you, Dave.
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It's all good man, we all have our ups and downs...there are so many good people here and they've all helped me through some severely depressing times....like the one I'm gonna start here soon...arrrrg!!....love and good vibes to you dave. it's ok to be embarrassed it's a human thing..
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Truly appreciated im there you cant enter the dark zone its mine.:):)SD Do For Other's you Will Feel Better!!! Guaranteed
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how very deep and insightful for you to share that with us. Hang in there, the winter/X Mas season can be really awful for many people. But HEY-we're all in it together, as Johnman the Wise said.********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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good thoughts to all hey smiley dave we will survive reaching out and sticking together, the time tested way to get by
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Never meant in any way to get a reply thanks al so much. Now really embarrassed.Oh has not kill me yet. :):):) to all. Have a Blessed one. Blessing's to you and your's. Do For Other's You Will Feel Better. Guaranteed!
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Embarassment is unwarranted fear , take not the bait...;.Reap instead the words of your own advice , for they are gold , brother....
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Peace and love to ya dave!
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I know I'm new here but my dad is going through surgery for liver cancer and you all seem like such a positive group. I'd greatly appreciate it if some positive vibes could be sent his way. Thanks a whole lot. Much respect
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Welcome to you, and big ole healing healthy vibes to your father.********************************** By trying we can easily learn to endure adversity -- another man's I mean. Mark Twain
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Sending positive vibes to you both!!!
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Thank you all very much for the well wishes. It means a lot to us both. I extend the same positive thoughts you all of you as well
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For Mykey's Dad...and the strength for the your family to get through this.
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for Mykey's Dad. We are all one..........
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well wishes to mykeys dad
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welcome Mykey
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sending out good thoughts to you and your dad, Mykey there is a wonderful sense to LOVE