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  • wildlifer82
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    Hey guys, just moved to Salem, OR and looking to meet some fellow deadheads... drop me a line if you're even close to me (Portland - Eugene) or really anywhere - the more the marrier! peace and music, Matt
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    Just wondering if anyone knew where I might find Brian Ahier McCabe. We were Brian and Karen from the Haight from 1990 to 1999. Last saw him on 16th and Mission early 1999. Just wondering if we are still legally married and how he is doing. Also Don Todd, Texas Dave etc. etc.... you know who you are... I would love to hear from you
  • Thedeadheadmommy
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    Morgan Griggs of VA 7 the Southwest & Andrea Watson of Nantucket
    looking for these old friends too....I know it's a shot in the dark, but hey, gotta try, right?!
  • Thedeadheadmommy
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    Bill Todd & Mike Harris & Local (North Shore of Ma)
    I am looking for 2 old tour buddies...Bill Todd, lived in Cockeysville MD in early 90's....Mike Harris lived in Pensacola FL and Bay St Louis in the late 90's...always looking for any DHs on the North Shore...I was on tour from 91-94, love to find folks who were around then
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    I am Looking for Deadheads in NYC or Westfield NJ
    I am looking for like minded (see profile) Dead Heads to communicate with and possible build friendships. I am married with a kid and one on the way. I own a home in Westfield, NJ and work in NYC. Hope to hear from you.
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    I wish to Inform the Deadhead community that my Best Friend in the entire world as passed and any fellow heads that would know him (and there were many, many heads)should know that this happened, particularily Tony in Portland that i do not know how to contact but I saw at the 2004 show there with the Dead. Andy was a model deadhead in his belief system or principals. Jerry would of have been proud to call him friend , he never wanted to be a typical fan or hassle anyone at anytime. He was my music partner we went to so many shows together , the ones on my profile is a small sampling. His knowledge of the music and the Dead plus numerous other band community was like a library of knowledge , The vault people could of used Andy. The following is his Obit and the DEADHEADS worldwide weather you knew him or not, should heed to his passing. His story is 30 years plus and amazing. It would take more space than I'm provided to tell the story from beginning to end. I have been given his music collection , which is quite extensive in tapes as well as CD's , Probably more than 3000 pieces or more. I will be cataloging this collection of live shows and all. The following is the OBIT , My Tears have flown for three days now since I found out. Yesterday was the big day for the furneral and being with his family. I have known Andy since we were 15 years old. John Andrew "Andy" Vojtko John Andrew "Andy" Vojtko of Libertyville Visitation for John Andrew "Andy" Vojtko, 45, will be from 1 p.m. until the time of the services at 2 p.m. Saturday, June 28, at Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 29700 N. St. Mary's Road, Libertyville, with Pastor Robert Davis officiating. Born Aug. 18, 1962, in Libertyville, he passed away Wednesday, June 25, 2008. Andy had lived in the Libertyville-Mundelein area all his life. He was a 1980 graduate of Libertyville High School, received an associates degree from the College of Lake County and attended Illinois State University. He was a charter member of Holy Cross Lutheran Church in Libertyville and was employed as a cook at Winchester House for many years. Andy enjoyed music, model trains, the outdoors, various pets and cooking. Surviving are his parents, Gerald and Delores Vojtko of Libertyville; two sisters, Jane (Charles) Binning of Cornville, Ariz. and Lynne (Darren) Rogers of Wauconda; and his favorite nephew and niece, Ethan and Brianna Rogers. Memorial contributions can be made to your favorite charity. Arrangements were made by Burnett-Dane Funeral Home, Libertyville, 847-362-3009. Published in the Chicago Suburban Daily Herald on 6/27/2008.
  • ortise
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    Are we there yet
    Hoping Heathaafethaa is well. Also, Kim(?) Did you ever make it to RatDog down Jacksonville way?
  • DownTownSteve
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    I am trying to find Scotty Dank. He sold the Dank and Schwag T-Shirts on tour. Everyone knew him and we traveled together but now I can not find him. I need to talk to him. Please help me fellow Dead Heads. I know one of you knows where he can be found.
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    long lost love
    saw your name on album and had a big wonder for BW.email no5bluevandriver@yahoo.com
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    If anybody out there happens to know a guy named Marc Bose please forward my request to him to write me. He lived in Frankfurt, Germany back in the mid/late 90s. We shared many a good tape and beer together. Thanks! Chris Perry Columbus, OH perrycj@hotmail.com
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Searching for that young woman who I miracled into the show back in the 90's. Not much going on here just another late night thinking about the project ahead of me! Yawn. Where did all those people go? Well, I must be getting older. Time for some ZZZZZ's.

Yeah, I might have to make a internet show of photos the way things are going these days.

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Hello! I’m the daughter of Perry Green. She passed when I was 5 so I’m trying to dig through her history in hopes of learning more about her. I’d assume she traveled throughout California shows in the late 70s- early 80s. She was beautiful, kind and had a great laugh :)

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I’m the angel you thought you’d never find. This is the real thing, and we no longer have to pretend. Let’s start again.

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Looking for old friend deadhead who I picked up hitchhiking north 101 from San Rafael Ca.Headed with dog to sisters place in Oregon from AZ.Stayed at my place in Petaluma for a few days then continued to make it by Christmas to Oregon.Came by on way home.probably mid 90s.Had fire in place AZ while gone,can’t remember his name 5’7,slim,longhair,60s now.worked with L.Skynerd dead to the core.seajay260@yahoo.com.Carl p.s.he had a lot of D.Head friends.fair thee well

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Looking for Dave and Janice. Dave had green eye & blue eye, did acid daily & studied astrophysics. Janice an earthy hippie. Paul from McPherson

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We connected after I left FL. I posted a " missed connection" on CL and a friend told you about it. Since then, you have disappeared; someone told you to "break ties with your past" Well, I disagree! ( for what that's worth.) I told you I think of you when I see Orion in the Eastern Sky. He rises in the winter when we met at the " Warf" where Crazy Fingers would play on Thursdays. I hope you or a friend sees this and asks you to reach out. I sure miss you.
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My lovely wife Sue worked for Emily K in Santa Barbara around 1980, and she had a coworker named Karen Mariott, who was from Ventura, Ca. We became friends with Karen and husband Bill, who lived in Ventura. I last saw Bill in Ojai in 1985.
They went to shows with the Beanie Copter Crew, in CalTrans orange.
Karen used to bake goodies for Harry Popick, who mixed stage monitors
We lost track of them many years ago, and hope to reconnect..
Bob H

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I'm looking for anyone who was on the bus that day we rolled over. I miss You kids.

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Tracy where are you? I don't know how I lost you and i miss you so much. Thank you for saving my life. I hope you are ok. I'm in California and want to see your beautiful smile.

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Hi! I am trying to find Marcus, the shakedown street vendor artist who creates the soft black Tshirts screen printing a white pirate stealie with swords on the front. I would like to support this artist by purchasing 4 shirts from him as I did not have the money while at the last two shows - in NY and in PA. Thank you so much!!!

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Looking for an old friend from the early 80s's. His name was Skip, and attended many shows in that period, selling shirts and other things he made. He also had a store selling his dead shirts and other similar items in Queens, NY in 1983, when i knew him. Any one know who i am talking about and any idea if he is still with him and how to contact him?

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It's been 30 years now since we last hitchhiked across across the land from sea to sea to sea over mountains across endless plains through National parks and forests through a desert or two north south east west whichever way the flip of a lucky quarter directed us to go . It's been 15 years or so since we last kicked around a hackysack somewhere near Dayton Ohio . You met and married your wife there and had started a family . We lost contact after that day . Never thought that as I drove away it would be the last time we would see or talk to each other. I tried to get in touch with you through Willie a couple years ago only to find that he had passed away ( my condolences he was a good friend and brother ) . I know this is a long shot since you have no presence anywhere on the net that I can find which is not a surprise considering where and how you were living and I assume still are . If by chance you should come across this message just know that your legend lives forever in memories with kind smiles . Peace be the journey and blessed be thy thumb . Hope you are well and that we will meet again if not in this lifetime then in the next .

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It just makes me a bit sad that so many people are looking for folks that made an indelible impression on them. Do they find each other and reunite? Could they use this site to do that? I want to see a success story! Please! Here Comes Sunshine…!

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I met him in ninth grade, and I was the first person to talk to him
We attended some shows together and parted ways, and lost each other for 19 years
We recently reconnected because I had cancer
We have lost each other again
Maybe next lifetime we will be there pirate ship I will love you forever

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hi all! i'm a casting director looking for deadheads on shake street - if you are attending any of the following shows in these cities please email me: Los Angeles, Dallas, NYC, Boulder, Gorge, and San Francisco

specifically looking for these subcultures:

SOBER DEAD HEAD
BOOTLEGGER
INTERNATIONAL DEAD HEAD
DEAFHEADS

casting@ckc-projects.com

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Looking for a friend to attend the show with, preferably female (and cute too much to ask for?). I'm a fun guy :) 42

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Try the Tix Offered section.
Only us nerds look at this one.
Cheers

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Looking for my tour buddy TAD from Illinois had a half wolf dog named shaman , I got locked up in Utah a back in 94 they released Tad after some months , hey bro miss the hell outve ya , I’m back on my grind if you or anyone sees this knows him please reach out

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Lenny, Lenny, Lenny!!!!! I know you!! I don't actually. I know of you because back somewhere between 95-98, I was in Santa Cruz when my friend Paul Rush rode his motorcycle all the way from Delaware to hopefully meet up with me. Unfortunately I had left to go back to PA three days before his arrival. We wrote many letters back and forth, and Paul wrote about you, and how you had helped him when he first got to Santa Cruz. I'm hoping you know of some way to reach him because somehow we lost touch and I've been looking for him for many many years. My name is Tarah Smith- aka Cordy. My email address is autodidact43@outlook.com

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Saw you were looking for Loopy. ( Real name Rob). He is from Altoona, PA originally, so maybe he landed there???

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Hey now!

Anyone know how to find the person or people in charge of licensing for Dead-related stuff?

I'm trying to navigate through Rhino and the only licensing stuff I can find seems to be about music. What about gear?

Thanks in advance for any help or answers provided!

Josh

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looking for a long lost friend I used to go to shows with in the early 90s. Lost touch a long time ago but would love to connect. He was from Bergen County NJ at the time but no idea where he ended up. Any help would be awesome

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I wish I could add a photograph, but I'm looking for an old friend- Paul or PJ Rush. Last I knew, he was in Santa Cruz. We were very close and wrote back and forth for awhile but its been over 20 years since the last letter. If you are out there my old famm, send me a message!

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Just looking for some heads around Superior/Duluth area. On the bus since 1973 at the Met Center in Bloomington....

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Anyone know this lady Deadhead? She made these beautiful hand-painted parking lot shirts in 1980. I bought one. They were a limited edition of 100. I just wonder if she is still around. Thanks.

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Looking for Cindy Wright. Bay Area deadhead who used to work at BASS tickets and who was seeing the Dead since her first show at the closing of the Fillmore West in July 1971. She lived in Oakland or Alameda but was originally from Modesto or some other Central Valley time. Message me on twitter at @DrBeechwood if you have any info!

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Tobin and I attended July 10th 1987 Dylan/Dead show in Philly together and he got lost en route to the venue! We also went to the same high school, Bullis, in Potomac, MD circa 86-87. I'd love to run into him again and catch up.
I knew Domo from school too. Good times.
Is anybody else out there a dead head from Bullis HS in the late 80's? Did you attend our little Trips festival we had in Fall '86 at school during 'Recreation Day' or some such thing?

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I’m really wanting to hear some tales of the dead from any Cincinnati dead heads - I’m also looking a potential pen pal to discuss the dead, life, etc

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I'm Joe. I live in the west of Ireland.

I am looking for a pen pal to write real pen and paper letters... share memories of the Grateful Dead, and stories about Ireland.

I write poetry and shun technology. I have no email... a friend Dave is posting on my behalf. I am 74 years old. Let me know if you would like me to write a real old snal mail ;-)