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  • SouthernSugaree
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    Any Arkansas Deadheads out there?
    Arkansas is pretty conservative, and any kindred spirits out there are always welcome. We could get together and cook good food, drink good beer, and share some incredible music. I would love to hear from you. Peace, Hillary
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    not too much deadhead in france , looking for someone who had been to many shows over the years to share stories, experience thanks
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    At the time our class photo was taken, I wasn't on the bus yet. There was a group of people holding up a St Stephen album cover that didn't get edited out of the photo. Just wonderin where they are today and what they're up to. More importantly are any of them going to the 5-14-09 shoreline show? I'll be there. If ya still got the class pic, I'm on the top row and (I think 3rd from the left) with the wind blowing my long hair 1/2 into my face. Shoot me a PM.Steve R
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    Need to get out of here..
    Looking for a travel partner,work on the way and other tips. I am currently in New Hampshire and am MORE then considering leaving for Chicago tonight! I was at the Worcester Shows both nights, It was amazing! and if I would not have been borrowing a vehicle at the time would have trucked it on up to Buffalo. I am in desperate need for change and I think a tour is just what I need. I am looking to get to Cali by the end of the summer and open to anything in between. I am wondering if there are any out there that may need a ride for gas,Help vending or anything that will help me on the way.
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    Sorry about your experience dondini. I wasn't at the show bout I'm sure there were some witnesses. I have also been beat up by the pigs while tripping on mushrooms out here in California. I was pepper sprayed in the face for what seemed like 20 seconds straight. They must've used the whole fucking can on me. Then I was beaten to the ground with batons, cuffed and dragged through gravel by 4 huge, angry sherrifs, thrown in the back of a squad car and driven to the hospital to be mentally "evaluated". Never in my life have I been in so much pain before. And I was only 16 years old. Fucking Pigs. No offense to all the kind hearted police officers who try to make a difference in this world as well as provide for their families. You are actually humans unlike these assholes on a power trip. I can only hope my next encounter with a cop is with one of you and not some fuck trying to kick my ass or put me in jail. Again my sympathy for dondini. Of all places to be victimized I would not expect it at a Dead show.
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    I found Cinderella at the Spectrum on 5/2, we danced to Althea...You are an angel. You left your shoes behind and I found you at the bottom of the steps behind section 319...I wish we'd have spent more time together...I love you.
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    dondini Joined: 31 Dec 2008 Posts: 7 Location: eartth Posted: Thu Apr 30, 2009 10:15 am Post subject: police brutality Hartford Ct. April 26, 2009 I am filing police brutality charges against the city of Hartford for an incident that happened at the Civic Center during a dead concert April 26 2009. From what I understand there were other instances where the police were beating Deadheads, if you would like to join the lawsuit or have the incident documented, send an e-mail to ; thetribe2009@live.com with a description of the abuse. The net proceeds from the lawsuit will be given to the citizens of Hartford who have lived with these acts of brutality for so long. Hopefully the awards will be so significant that every city and town in this country will get the message that the police are here to protect and SERVE the citizens, not to abuse and humiliate them. While we are at it we should fulfill our legacy. (there are other issues that demand our attention which we will address, once we resolve those that have our imprimatur on them.) One, direct President Obama to issue an immediate presidential pardon to all non-violent drug offenders. Other drug offences will be reviewed devoid of minimum maximum sentencing guidelines. There are thousands of Deadheads who are languishing in prisons doing twenty to life for merely expressing their constitutional rights of life, liberty, and THE PURSUIT OF HAPPINESS. as well as millions of our brothers and sisters from the urban areas. Two , legalize marihuana and other psycho-active drugs. Heroin and Cocaine will be legalized and be distributed either by the government directly or agents approved by the government. There will be a structure with certain protocols associated with the distribution of these substances. People who sell to minors under eighteen years of age will be subject to ten years in jail and seizure of all assets This eliminates the war on drugs, the D.E.A. the problems in Mexico and other south American countries. We free up hundred’s of thousands of prison beds that can be used by our homeless population. A place to sleep, three meals a day, laundry service, health care, counseling, recreational facilities, educational opportunities, and transportation to and from the cities. And saving about a trillion dollars when everything is taken into consideration. Before the white man came to these lands, the original inhabitants, from the northern reaches of Canada to the tip of what is now known as Chile and everything in between used psycho- active substances. The Americas have the spirit of the Indians etched into its soul. There are many noble police officers in this country, however their efforts are marginalized because of the brotherhood of police officers in each station, and the police unions. The facts are such that if an individual officer wishes to file a complaint he/or she is ostracized at the very least, their careers finished. The politicians from the smallest town to the largest cities throughout the United States cannot address police problems for two reasons, The perks they receive i.e. fixing tickets and other things, and having two of the most powerful municipal unions working against their re-election. When was the last time that a police officer addressed you by saying good morning sir may I see your license and registration. They all look the same, have the same attitude that you are the adversary. They are not polite, cordial, a part of you .They lost the TO SERVE part of their oath. You can thank Blackwater International for that. Okay, how do we get this off the ground? For the time being go to www. gdradio.net a. check in or register b. go to message board > forum index > general discussion. If your state is listed as a topic go to that state, list names and zip-codes of people who want these laws enacted If your state is not listed under topics go to PICK A TOPIC list your state as a topic enter names and zip-codes of people who want these laws enacted. Go to www.dead.net a. sign in or register b. go to forums > dancing in the streets > under topics if your state is listed go to your state , enter names and zip-codes of people who want these laws enacted. c. if your state is not listed go to new posts list your state enter names and zip-codes of people who want these laws enacted Hopefully the administrators for each site can quickly come up with a more efficient system for collecting and collating the data. Once we have the names from each state we go to the senators and congressperson of those states show them the names of their constituents and they either enact the legislation or face a recall. If after we finish this business, there remains other issues such as health care, education, foreign policy issues etc. etc. that remain unresolved we handle them the same way. Back to the lawsuit, if anyone saw the police beating on me at the concert while I was seated in the section in back of the stage or when I was being dragged into the hall, outside , back into the hall , back outside. and is willing to be a witness please contact me at thetribe2009@live.com Before I end this post with a description of my experiences at the concert that night, consider this scenario : Here I am a sixty two year old man, returning to a seat that I had occupied for the first set. I am sitting, I have nothing in my hands, I am not screaming or jumping around. I am sitting in a seat with my eyes closed playing with my bracelets, for all practical purposes I would appear to be asleep to the casual observer. I am alone , no seat in back of the stage is occupied. How could I possibly appear as a threat to anything ,let alone four huge security guards. They could have sent their smallest female security guard and told me the section was closed and I would have been out of that seat in a heartbeat. Now remember there are no signs saying section closed, nor are there ropes or anything to discourage a person from sitting in this section. They sent four huge thugs. All any of them had to say ,when I asked why they wanted me out , was to say the section is closed, end of story I move. I paid over a hundred dollars for the seat as well as over four hundred dollars for my families seats in other areas. I had a right to ask why I had to move. I asked the same question to the police when they came , why do I have to move, all they had to say was the section is closed , I move . Not one person would answer the question why !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Again I ask what threat did I pose, AND TO WHOM,for such a massive show of aggression to be directed to one sixty two year old dead head. Think about that folks. A description of events HARTFORD APRIL 26, 2009 Sorry for digressing. Forward to the 2009 tour. Worc. Sat nite ho hum, the band seems confused, tepid. Worc. Sun nite hot, free, they came together and created the uncreated. they once again were in the cosmic domain. Great show, time to take my niece and her niece, my girlfriend and her niece. the kids they dance and shake their bones. HARTFORD CT. Traveling through the parking lots, buying t-shirts enjoying the carnival. Over the rise and what do we see, Hartford Pigs pushing a kids face through the concrete. Eight of them in battle formation, their nazi boots eager to stomp waving their dicks in their hands ready to bust open any head that comes their way. The kids crying at the cruelty they never seen, everybody watching not doing a thing, my blood boils, after forty years the same shit different time, the only difference is that forty years ago the pigs would be running after everybody because everybody would be throwing whatever they could at the motherfuckers. This time complete docility , so I start yelling pigs leave the kid alone, one pig turns his head to see who would dare to question their authority. one more time “hey motherfucker, that’s right that’s you ,you fat piece of shit” he looks like a mad bull turning this way and that, this time he zero’s in on me the kids are looking right at him, I grab the kids and start pointing to the balloons in back of him he turns to look at what I am pointing at, and we walk away. I should have trusted my vibes and not gone to the show, whenever there are fucking pigs around guess who gets to pay the price. but I figured I got the kids and my girlfriend screaming her lungs out at me ,and my niece reminding me of what always happens between me and the police, so I let it go and drop them off at the restaurant while I cruise the lots looking for mushrooms.( the cops in worc. were really great they were part of the show ,it made my heart sing to see peace between us all.) Been looking for an hour no shroomes, imagine how I felt. forty years ago we were smuggling tons of herb, and thousands from Jamaica. We brought the seeds to Jamaica to improve the stock. I took spores from Jamaica translated a French book and my friends spent months trying to grow them. They finally succeeded we were the guys with the dehydrated mushrooms in the vacuum sealed plastic bags with the directions in the bag. We even gave the dead fresh picked huge ones at a concert in R I. Needless to say today the sacred shroomes are in the hands of rip offs and redheaded venders that use them to play their power games. One motherfucker had me waiting for an hour ,he has them he doesn’t have them he can’t find them whatever , I finally told him to go fuck himself ,I think he wanted to suck my dick. So I headed back to the girls ripshit that these idiots were now controlling these sacred things. As I came to a gate this guy appeared in front of me and humbly with respect asked if I wanted chocolate mushrooms, He made my day , thank you sir wherever you are, they were all you claimed and then some, thus my faith in this generation was restored. THE CONCERT Got in and I went to my usual perch in back of the stage, this time things were different there was a black veil covering the rear of the stage and all the seats were empty. In worc. I sat back there and it was pretty crowded, it didn’t make sense to me ,but no ropes or signs that said you can’t sit here. So I was in heaven Since I keep my eyes closed during a show made no difference to me if a veil was up as long as the sound was good. Besides I was tired, a sixty two year old hippie isn’t like a twenty year old, I was just getting off, the band was about to start I was happy where I was. The girls wanted to have none of this, they wanted to be as close to the stage as possible especially the young nieces they wanted to see Bobby. That old goat was grayer than I was and still the fourteen and fifteen year olds fell in love with him. So who was I to break a girls heart, they had my girlfriend and older niece ,who had her own crush on Bobby when she was a kid, to hang out with. Five minutes after they left the lights went down and they came out steaming. They were at max .velocity the first song, so you knew this was going to be heaven or close enough to pretend. And sure enough it was in outer space by the third song. With my eyes closed I could see every note, my bracelets were playing themselves and for the first set I was grinning from ear to ear. At break I went to have a cigarette and play with the deadheads I was in exceptional cosmic form perfect balance and dancing through the stream. Just admiring the beauty all around me. When the lights started to flicker I decided to see how the kids were doing sure enough they were close to the front and their eyes were dazzling and nothing but smile smile smile. I decided to let them be and went back to my perch behind the stage. Looking foreword to time travel the second set. I finished off the shroomes and eternally grateful to the candy man I met. I hadn’t felt this tribal in a long long time. The cosmic tribe was here again ,I cried tears of joy my heart was bursting. As I got comfortable I saw this guy with a flash light just walking back and forth in back of the stage he looked bored as shit, there was not a soul around him. Just as I was closing my eyes and playing my bracelets I thought he was shining his light on me, I didn’t pay any attention I was traveling in between the notes this was going to be hot and the shroomes were taking me to never never land. Just as I was going into the jam with the boys I sensed a presence on both sides of me, I opened my eyes and there were three security guards on my right and one big mother on my left. It took me awhile to tune into what they were saying because I was with every note, then I heard the big guy on my left shouting “Hey you, you have to move “well I was a little discombobulated doing a phase change, but I could feel this guys aggression and it put me in tribal mode I was suddenly BIG WIND, and when your in tribal mode there is no fucking around, you don’t fuck with anything , but if anything fucks with you it becomes very primitive its do or die. So I still had my sunglasses on and I turned to the big motherfucker and said excuse me what did you say, “he said get out of the fucking seat” so I said who the fuck are you, He says “ I’m security that’s who now get the fuck out of the seat” so I said “I don’t give a fuck who you are get out of my fucking face” I could see his muscles tense up and he says “ Your going to find out who the fuck I am real quick” I could see his confidence building as his buddies started to come closer , but I was also in a vulnerable position because I was sitting down so I got up And said to him “listen motherfucker get out of my face and take these assholes with you, get your fucking supervisor over here and have him tell me why the fuck I have to move. That was it ,he looked like he had a feeling of satisfaction on his face he started to make his move, now I’m sixty two years old I’m not about to let this guy near me, his body language told me that he thought it was just a forgone conclusion that he was to have his way with me ,he had no clue that he was about to lay dead on the floor, I started to prepare my hand to go through his nose into his eyeballs and through his brain, just one very quick fatal move that he did not even comprehend, he was getting ready to do to me what he did many times before, grab me and then start his shit .I was just about ready to let it fly when this other person came and told him to leave. He didn’t want to do it, he looked at me as if he was about to move anyway, and this lady screamed at him to back away, this guy was crushed he was so into trying to kill me. As he backed off I tried to see where the juice was coming from and I saw the other guys looking down in the stage ‘s direction ,so that was where it was coming from, I tried to see who it was but they merged into the shadows. They left I was no longer thinking about the music, I’ve been in many life threatening situations before to know that this was the real thing. But I was unprepared for it here, especially since it came from the stage area. then my mind started to go into real tribal mode and I remembered that when I was in the smoking area and I was walking around I came close to this guard and he reacted like he saw a ghost he was Spanish , then I remembered that same reaction when I was in Aruba the guards were Columbian and they had this same kind of voodoo reaction it was like I was the devil or something. But in aruba I learned that anybody could start a security company, and this security had a bunch of bad ass motherfuckers .I knew that they were bad ass motherfuckers because two guys tried to kill me in aruba, and the next time I arrived these same two guys were working security at the airport. At the fucking airport!!! That’s when I learned about security companies being real dangerious threats .Never expected to see it at a grateful concert. So as I was digesting this new turn of events a cop comes and sits down beside, and he says you have to leave, now here I was the first set just fine playing my bracelets no one bothering me and I’m not bothering anybody because there’s no one to bother I am completely alone. So what the fuck changed, it all came back to that security guard in the smoking area, and his fear, what the fuck was he afraid of . then I remembered that he actually left and the security guard at the bottom of the stairs saw the whole thing, so now what the fuck is this cop doing. He was a little cop, and he’s telling me to get the fuck up and I said excuse me officer but can you tell me why I have to move, and he says because I told you to. So I said what the fuck does that mean, he said if you don’t leave I will hand cuff you, so I said if you want to handcuff me then you better be sure you can do it or else your going over the rail, again something seemed familiar about this scenario, a small guy gives you shit then five buddies join the mix so sooner did I think this that five more cops show up this time a sergeant with his whole crew, he says come on get the fuck out of that seat, the little cops laughing he says I told you so, so I said to the sarrgent excuse me sir but can you tell me why I have to move, he says because they want you out ,I said who wants me out, he says enough of this shit get him out .So five cops proceed to beat me with their clubs, they have my arms around the back of my neck putting the cuffs on ,once they have the cuffs on they really get nasty the sergeant shouts stop trying to resist stop trying to resist as they start really wailing with the clubs and the sergeant pushing my face into the concrete stair, I started laughing at the sergeant and said you dirty motherfucker I’m not trying to resist I’m fucking handcuffed, but look at the camera the whole thing is being recorded you fucking asshole suddenly he comes out of the frenzy pulls me up and starts looking for the camera ,I said look at the camera you motherfucking pig the whole thing was recorded. He says stop trying to resist now ,then he tells the other cops to get me out of there, all nicey nicey. I drove this sergeant crazy ,I told him what a corrupt mfucking pig he was in the hallway he starts going crazy again so I say’s look around you all these people are witnesses, he starts his stop resisting shit again and I said you motherfucking piece of shit how the fuck can I resist asshole I’m fucking handcuffed you idiot. now this guy is totally insane he wants to crack my skull, so he drags me out in the rain and starts his shit again ,stop trying to escape ,stop trying to escape as he is kneeing me in the balls I said look around you you motherfucking piece of shit , see all these people watching you he looks around ,I said they saw you kneeing me in the balls you fucking idiot, he pulls me back inside the arena ,he’s like a fucking rat with no place to go ,he didn’t know what the fuck was going on. Well that’s Hartford I spent the night in jail on 35000 bail charged with all kinds of shit. So the lesson for the dead is you had a motherfucking dangerous security company right on your door step, with the Hartford police dept in the fucking bag with them . WHEN LIFE LOOKS LIKE EASY STREET THERE IS DANGER AT YOUR DOOR Couldn’t think of a better bunch of guys to take a fucking beating for your welcome frank t _________________ from all of us to all of you
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    Anybody remember a guy who used to trip his brains out at the Fillmore E, Manhatten Center and Capital in Portchester who used to call himself Joe Brunser? I wonder what happened to that dude!
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    So I have an extra ticket for Chicago 5/5, and I'm flying solo. My first Dead show (I confess to being new on the bus). I am looking for someone to give this said ticket to (call it Steph's stimulus plan), and receive payment hopefully in the form of some sort of passionate makeout session. hmm... suppose I should give my qualifications eh? Nice sweet petite 30's woman, good kisser, Cubs fan, seeks same. If I don't find anyone here, I'm sure I'll find someone in parking lot to bestow a good deed upon, so no tru worries. But if I could get kissed well, that would be great. :)
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    Hey I was just at the Hartford show 4/26/09.I met this guy from Amherst MA..his name is Billy.you helped me get water for my friend and we clicked in the hallway,had an amazing kiss then I got dragged away!Where are you and how to we get in contact...your eyes are amazing and your soul even more.somebody anybody help me out here-Meredith(shiatsu practitioner)
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Well, I'm looking for this guy who gave me his ticket for my first Dead show August 5th 89 in Cal Expo saying "Take mine, it's your first show!". I don't know anything about him and I got only this fuzzy picture you should find on my fan photo site. Read the whole story here: http://www.dead.net/forum/deadheads-europe?page=36 (Posted: May 30, 2008 - 2:00pm). Although it was almost 20 years ago, I really would like to thank him as from there on, I am a deadhead, you understand?Anybody can help? Ah wait, this girl who gave me the ride and was kind of in love with him, her name was Alissa. Thank you all, Frank --- www.stash-radio.de
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Jane is a beautiful lady with long red hair, always wore it braided. She lived in Colorado in the 80's. We did the Europe tour in '90 together, with her boyfriend Jason, think Jason was a taper for awhile. I'd love to know how you're doing Jane!! Also would love to know where Brian Sheehy is these days. He would always show up late to our usual table for Jerry shows at the Warfield, throw his backpack down and sit on the top of our table.
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I've recently been on a quest to find out "who's my daddy..." I contacted both the adoption agency as well as a private investigating agency to assist me. According to both sources my biological father was a drummer for a very popular band which is still known today. They would not release the name...only non-identifying information. They also told me he had dark brown/black hair and blue eyes. Contact was then made with my biological grandfather and he said it was the Grateful Dead....do you think this could be possible? I promise I'm not a crazy person....just someone trying to find my roots. Don't want to interrupt or cause chaos in anyone's lives, nor am I looking to gain anything other than knowledge of where I came from. If anyone thinks they can help me with this....I'd be GRATEFUL!
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Good luck on your quest. My daughter found me after 16 years, and we now have a grate relationship :) I hope the same for you ! Mickey or Bill?? Hmmmmmmmmmmm, well ya never know :/
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Well, I've been looking at the photos of both Mickey and Bill.....Weird thing is I can see a resemblance in Mickey but some of Bill's photos look like my 15 year old son. Can anyone else out there see the resemblance or is it just me? Help me out guys....I'd really like to know. If anyone has thoughts on other bands that had a drummer with brown/black hair and blue eyes I could be looking at let me know. I was born in 1969 to an unwed mother who was a groupie....her name is Billie.
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This is Brian... I last saw you at Madison Square Gardens on 9/20/90. We met at the Richfield shows earlier in the fall tour and I've lost track of you since!! Where are you, sister?
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hi-just wanted to say good luck finding your father. Also, I believe both Mickey & Billy have brown eyes. If you've found your mother, she may be of more help than anyone. (as to what bands she was with) Also, where were you born? Frank Zappa had alot of groupies.......So, just good luck again! Gypsy Cowgirl
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Bernstein that is, she lived in Chicago back in the early 80's till we met in Santa Fe, NM. Then she relocated to Berkley,Ca. We dated for a couple years till I left Ca for treatment in MN. Been here 22 years. Just wondering how you are? Franko
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Thanks for responding to my post. I also appreciate you giving me other ideas as to bands to look at. I checked out Frank Zappa and it looks like he has brown eyes....Bill's photos looks like he has brown eyes, but Mickey's look like they may be blue. Unfortunately contact with my birthmother has proved to be difficult as she is still living like she was in the 60's...roaming and not settling down anywhere....bouncing from friends to friends. Contact was made with her father and he said she only calls and checks in periodically. When he was asked about what band he thought my father played for his response was Grateful Dead. She supposedly is still following some of the members...I was born in Alaske in 1969, but she was only there visiting her mother and step father as he was in the military there. After she had me she brought me back to her Dad's house in Houston, Tx. I don't know where she was when I was conceived. I wish I knew where my incredible genes came from...as it doesn't appear it was from my mom...lol! Just kidding! I think my father would be proud of me...I'm well accomplished in life and have always had a natural gift of being musically inclined. I've taught dance for the last 20 years as a hobby...funny, Bill's mother was a dance teacher! There is no telling who he could be and I'll probably never find out. I would just hate to go through life and leave this earth never knowing. I enjoy getting to know others on this site and really appreciate both you and gratefulmom for responding to my post.
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Mickey's eyes are brown.............good luck on your quest Too bad your birth mom is not more cooperative! "Brown-eyed women and red grenadine, The bottle was dusty but the liquor was clean. Sound of the thunder with the rain pourin' down, And it looks like the old man's gettin' on." think all you can do now is listen to the music play.......... xoxox Gypsy Cowgirl
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The posts in this thread make fascinating reading.... But almost every post leaves me wanting to know if there was a happy ending. Did they find eachother again? How was it? It would be grate to hear some stories of happy reunions!
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gypsy soul, trish, where you at babe?? hope all is well. we miss you. come back home anytime, door is always unlocked. love and peace. (badger, I culd make a weak joke about "happy endings" but that would be 'out of hand' so to speak)
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1995 Grateful Dead Fan – “Jason Doe” I'm trying to help identify a young man who died in a car crash in 1995, 2 weeks after attending a Grateful Dead concert at RFK in Washington, DC. Found in his pocket with 2 ticket stubs was a note that read, "To Jason, Sorry we had to go. See you around. Caroline O. and Caroline T." The note included a phone number that began with the numbers 914. Details on "Jason Doe": Approx. Age: 16 - 22 years of age (in 1995) Approx. Height: 5'8" - 5'10" Approx. Weight: 160 - 170 lbs. Hair: Light Brown/Dark Blonde - dyed Red (some sites claim it’s natural red) Eyes: Brown Distinguishing Characteristics: Homemade tattoo of a 5 point star on his left arm. His left ear was pierced but he was not wearing an earring. I don't know how to post pictures, but there are 2 images of him, one is a police sketch and the other is a reconstruction. I'm hoping someone from the 90's remembers him and can help identify him so that he can be returned to his family. If you would like more details or to see the images, please go to the Doe Network: www.doenetwork.org Case #127UMVA If you have any information that you think can help identify him, please contact: The Office of the Chief Medical Examiner: 1-800-447-1706 Case #123526
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We met in Hartford and you rode with us out to SF and we stayed out there for the spring then met up to get my car in Ohio. Where are you? Does anyone know this Phil from PA. Short guy with glasses, skinny. He used to hang with a friend of his selling stir fry. Anyone know a Phil from PA? This was from the spring tour of 88.
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BTW, she was in the theater in the Berkley area back in the mid/late 80's. I remembered I bumped into her at Chinese New Years back in '88 (year of the OX). Still looking for her... Just wanna say high ;o)
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I know he is a huge DEAD fan so maybe I can find Christopher Brunsoman here!It's been awhile, late 80's early 90's ??? I hung out with him while at the U of M. What happened to you? I want to catch up !
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I am searching for friends who knew Rebecca Lolicata.
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looking for any of the fine follks we met at state college. its jake and steph, the ones with the hula hoops and juggling balls and poi, and all kinds of fun stuff. kirstin or jess (mother and daughter),jacob the drum player and his buddy ryan,andrew and lauren, the people with the canoe from connecticut, and anyone who hooped with us. leave a note and we'll try to get back to you soon!!
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jake and steph also wanted to send a shout to the guys from jersey who we hung with at the econo lodge. if anyone knows an old dead head by the name of dr. bob who was at colorado school of mines in 1979 tell him dr jake says what up!
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Anyone know a Sunny or Sunshine on tour for many years? I met her in Landover 90 or around there. (I've been to every Landover show since 86 so they get melted together sometimes! lol) Anyway, she was the kindest. Kinda heavy set with a HUGE smile all the time. She gave me her long sleeve dye cause it was cold that night and we hung the whole night in the lot. Had a great time. If this rings a bell and you remember this night, give me a holla! I miss your kindness, it touched me that night, your spirit was wonderful!
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am searching for two friends who are deadheads and have been missing from me since 1991. i met them both in columbus ohio. if anyone knows either of these guys, please let me know. please. they were both important in m y life and i have lost touch so very long ago. loren with his thick red dreads and jeffery looking just like a smaller jerry. i miss them both. also looking for a missing friend from highschool who went into the airforce in 1985. john d. archer....am fearing his demise and cannot find any proof one way or the other.
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I'm looking for that guy I met at the Chinese New Year's shows in Oakland, '93. My first show, and this guy showed me the ropes, introduced me to the love of the scene and I was amazed, overwhelmed, lost, and tripping hard all at the same time. Can't remember his name, but I can quote him. It was set break. and I asked if that was it....did I miss a lot? He says "Is it over? You thought that was the end of the show? Hell no, it ain't over yet, that was just the first set! Stick around brother." I gave him a backstage pass I had acquired cuz I was so happy just to be where I was at. Skipped the chance to meet Jerry so an old fan that was just so kind to me could realize a dream. What a way to meet the Grateful Dead, huh!?!? I'm also looking for Almish Nelterson, or a copy of his book, "WOW". It should be bright orange, with big letters say WoW. This book was being distributed at the Shoreline shows in '94. I also want to say hi to Teach, Shaggy from Oklahoma, everyone in Vegas, Tulsa, Reno, Montreal, and Susanville that still search for the sound. @DarkStarGazer@ wishes all well and good.
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im looking for anyone who has over the years and years been looking for me. i miss every one from milwaukee and madison and chicago who took me on that first trip in '86 plus crew from pittsburgh and other various and kooky places. also does anyone read the rideshare board???!!! i posted a msg looking for riders from bob tour newark- boca and i will pick u up anywhere along the route and also collect u at the nyc phil-a-thon and i have not got a single msg back- what is going on out there- isnt anyone going on tour anymore except people who have a ride? i mean i got a really comfy mini van w/ a futon in back and lots of kind vibes, whats up witchall??? ok- poz vibes, call me anyone who wants to 201-406-0810 and above all, LOVE ONE ANOTHER !!! b good family
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Was in a band way back there in1972. We were bored kids in the neighborhood...and we started a little garage band that grew out of some bongos a mic and a tape recorder...an old guitar and a basement piano. We got focused and scraped up some bucks with odd jobs, paper routes and allowances. Before long, we built us a little PA, upgraded to "big" amps and a few Shure mics. I added a 2nd hand pearl drum kit to my bongo jams and off we went. A strobe light and our own patch-it- together lights and we got us a few gigs at party's and the school dance. Never had so much fun in my life. We called ourselves Spectrum and or Freight Train...There was another local band that was called Earth Spirit...We made all of $75 for the dance but after the split it worked out to $11 and change and it was worth every penny to see those people dancin'. Jim Moore on keyboard, Andy Ferretti and Rick Blais on guitar. Mark Izard on Bass...Jeff Mantooth singin' his heart out and I rolled the sticks. Some of the set included; Revival, Down By The River, Walk Away, It Don't Come Easy, Are You Ready, Guitar Gently Weeps....the rest will come to me as I let the memory return through the years. If you guys are out there touch base please. It would be a trip. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "Walk into splintered sunlight Inch your way through dead dreams to another land" Robert Hunter ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
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I'm writing a book and want to interview people who went to the 1978 New Year's Eve show at Winterland in San Francisco. Please e-mail me torrypal@yahoo.com.
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i was a part of the late eighties, early nineties tour scene spending most time off in the Haight, Santa Cruz and Humboldt areas. I'm just looking for some folk I used to hang and travel with. I've been living back in Canada for the past 10 yrs, so I've fallen out of touch with just about everyone. Drop me a line if you might remember me. thanx.
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I am working on a school project. (Freshman in college) I have to write a paper on any sort of American Subculture. I choose the deadheads. If anyone can help me that would be great!!! You just have to tell me some experiences, what it was like back in the 60s-80s. If someone can send me an email at aschmitz1990@yahoo.com that would be awesome! Thanks in advance.
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Who is from New Jersey and Arizona, tell him no, I am not stalking i just want to touch base. and I know he was at my sister's this summer !
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Looking to hear from Margret (last name forgotten) who worked for a time in the environmental group at LLNL in N. Calif. Joseph who worked there for a short time as well (around 1986) would just like to know how you are doing after all these years you smart pretty lady? Just watching the river flow www.mynorthwoods.net
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my ma new this woman back in the day, named my sister after her. i think she moved to alaska.. may be a nurse.. does anyone know her?
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Hey now, Looking for any Heads here in the Winston area. Just moved here 2 weeks ago and would love to meet and greet some kind folks and find out what's to do. Lots of music to share too. Thanks Kevin
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I just wanted to say "hey there Steve!" to my old friend of more than 30 years. We used to work together at BASS tickets back in the late 70's, and what a time that was! Cheers! Mick
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Hey this is Peggy Hovatters son if you see this post hit me up on here... deadhead 123 Peace man
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We where pen pals back in the late 80`s early 90`s before the day`s of e-mails and the internet .. remember the old 1-900-run-dead ? anyway I went to hit the big road and last I heard she left her parents house without notice (except to me) and went to San Francisco .I never heard from her again .. just wondering you know .,.? Hope you`ve done well Lisa .. I missed you throughout the years ..
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Looking to come in contact with a lost friend. Guessing maybe around the Marieta,Ohio..maybe Parkersburg,West Virginia. Her name is Nicole Lyttle, brown hair (may or may not have dreads still). Lived in Colorado for a short period of time back in about '98-99 I beleive. Was at one time dating a fellow that went by the name peach. =) =) =) thanks family!
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Im looking for a Jana Fitch that I met in Idaho last I heard she was moving to AK with her BF. She was from Portland OR originally. Steph from Indianapolis IN, Seanbob from TX I believe and a Thomas that fixed up an old wrecked blue Toyota truck he said he was heading for Canada but am not sure where he was from. He lived with Jana, Seanbob and Greg for a summer. I met all these people in Hailey and Ketchum Id area. We all had one good summer in the area and then everyone disbanded to do their own thing. Steph has a photo of all of us in Stanley ID sitting on a fence hanging out. If anyone in the Boise, ID or the surrounding area wants to trade tapes please drop me a line or post here if you know what any of these people are up to. My email is: jerryrocks8.06@gmail.com
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Are there any cool people in Naples or wanting to move to sunny SouthWest Florida? I have a studio for rent in my house with a private entrance. Check out the link to see the house. I'm looking for a single male or female. Personality is the most important thing. I'd like to find someone with similar interests just so my tranquil oasis stays that way. Email me or call if intersted. Not sure what I will charge for rent yet, but we'll work something out. Email-forever.young.67@hotmail.com or call (239) 206-9297 http://www.kimsellsnaples.com/PropertyDetails.aspx?HomeID=208042928 Please call me directly, not the realtor. The house is for sale, but it's most likely not going to sell anytime soon.
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Hey now, I'm looking for some headfs I hung with for many years in the Cruz. This is Lenny here[aka pinchapennylenny]anyone remember one Gordon Moon, Hagen, Monterey Mike, Philly Tony, and/or any other Pacific Garden Mall rats.....Fast Eddieand Rack, Rick,Moon Maiden, etc. I can go on and on..Hope everyone is doing well, I made it out alive, [barely]I have a wife and 9 year old daughter.I'm in Delaware, I was from N.J if you remember, as so many young jersey deadheads who heaede west.Those were some great times out there[people park, golden gate park, I'm trying ot remember my closest friends. Mike and Janet[still together I believe]...Anyone out there, my email is ciccone1@comcast.net, drop a line...L
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My little brother Danny has been MIA for almost 2 1/2 years now. Dan if you read this PLEASE phone home!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!I really just want to know if you are OK and alive!
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now there's a blast from the past, even if I was only visiting.