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  • TigerLilly
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    That was again a FINE piece of writing.********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens
  • marye
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    what they all said
    Folks above put it better than I could, bless 'em, but many good vibes and hopes for better times in the new year to you. We will get by!
  • Hal R
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    We are with you. Take care of yourself. Find joy in your life with your son, remember how important you are to each other. I wish you much peace to your spirit. I really just want to ditto what Oroboros said above. Hal If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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    Do what you are doing, my friend. Talk when you can, it can help to endure the pain. That pain is the unwelcome balance the joy that we are blessed to experience. Recognize the great gift of your skeptical humor and wit that you share regularly with us. And know that there are times that your contribution offers us all here a 'cookie' that is a unique 'johnmanism'. I can hear the angst in your post but note the warm empathy for others as well. Again that contrast is striking. And welcome. Move on as you can, brother, and stop and rest when needed. Depression often takes herculean efforts to endure. It is exhasting. Honor your feelings, but care to not linger on those thoughts that are destructive to you and tax your sense of yourself. Persevere and remind yourself of your path and how far you have come. Be gentle with yourself. "Shall we go?...you and I, while we can?" Take care, Tim The Truth is realized in an instant, the act is practiced step by step.
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    hold on, my good (john)man- the sun will rise again-- we are reaching out to you because of your value in this world i hope you made contact with tigerlilly or someone else who could help ease your pain and isolation i'm sending you good vibes & good wishes & i'll keep you in my prayers- tomorrow is a new year (thank goodness!). thinking of you-- xo c caroline
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    come in the chatroom-talk to me. is all I can say to do gotta walk the kids to a friend's and then will come back and wait 4 u! ********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens
  • johnman
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    when yer so down that ya can't talk to other people for fear you'll bum them out but ya need ta talk to someone so bad it makes yer chest hurt? when ya don't wanna eat, smoke, drink, sleep, stay awake, sit, stand, lie down but yer hungry thirsty tired and alone.........music doesn't help, nor does quiet, so scared ya wanna puke and can't. suicide is too much work and leaves a mess for someone else to clean up and bums THEM out, and ya know THAT ain't right, and ya know it's just selfish to think about yerself but ya know nobody else will.........and even if they do there's nothing they can do for you.................
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    Can anybody help GratefulMom out? She has DSO tix for tonight, and got stood up twice, and is in a bad way. is sort notice but very very important no idea what to do from here ********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens
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    Hey Bob,sometimes the night looks very dark,but the SUN comes up every morning and I wish you that its beams will cover you with all the good Vibes you need to go on..!!
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    peace through music Just wanted to jot a quick note on my way out the door to the hospital to see Norm. When your sinking in the mire of doubt and or depression just knowing that there are souls out there who take the time to care and write a few words of encouragement can be inspiring. It gives you the strength to carry on. Thank you all for this unconditional Love. And thank the stars for Marye and all the work you do connecting us all. Holiday blessings to all. To Sunshine Daydream Bob; Not sure what's wrong but sending Good Love vibes to you!
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i'm not certain, but it seemed to me he was a little lost....doesn't change his posts...but i'm gonna send him good vibes none the less..........i'm sure he needs them.
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and kidney healing vibes to cc's friend. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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cooking the menu, I think things are going in the right direction. All the best in healing vibes out to her and hopes for gentle days ahead for her. Thanks everyone for the well-beams, my Aunt moved from rehab back to her apartment. Still struggling mightily, but at least she is home now. May home be close for all who are suffering and working at healing. Take care The Truth is realized in an instant, the act is practiced step by step.
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The homeless, the guy holdin the sign that says"will work for food" on the corner of the on ramp, the starvin people in third world countrys, our troops across seas, and everybody on dead.net that has ill family members!!I wish all but the best for everyone! Peace- Moye
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thank you, folks. I'll pass on the good wishes. much appreciated. more ++++++++ stretching all around the world to everyone. love and peace to all.
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thanks folks, really appreciated. I'll pass on the kind thoughts and warm words. more ++++++ vibes for all. love and peace.
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to kristinacatfish...she recently had her 18 yr old cat put down and is heartbroken. kris was 6 when she got the kitty so they had a lifelong friendship...pls send her hugz and good vibes
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Kristinacatfish & Johnman, Oroboros Aunt, Hawkeye, Gigi's Dave &Chubsib -don't fly away,Steve O and mom, PK, and for anyone who needs strength and light to see you through. Cosmetic organic sesame oil (not for cookies & cake :) helps the joints and organs. Rub TOWARD THE HEART for soreness (kidneys, calves..). When you're sad rub on the heart area of spine. If I had a song to sing. LOL
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Can't think of anything...it doesn't smell like the sesame oil you cook with...does that help?
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Sorry to hear about you cat, It sucks to lose a pet. May these positive and healing vibes find ur heart and soul. _-=_-=_=-=-+=--__=-_-_-_==++_=-Moye
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Am soo sorry, Galpal! Peace for you and a giant hug.********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
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Am going to paste part of an e mail from my mother, that I just found 2 minutes ago. "Hi. Did you hear about David's girlfriend's father dying this weekend and David discovering this when he went to get him for breakfast. This was David's 40th Birthday weekend." David is my brother. Please, friends, send my brother vibes for shock and mourning, and while you're at it, a couple to my mother to help her gain sensitivity. Am cold all over, shocked for my brother, and with the tone that my mother WROTE me this news. ********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
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lots of support to bro and gf, and her famly.and some warmth for your mom, and some hugs for you. You are all in my thought.
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Warm beams of love to you tigerlily, and beams of comfort and hope for your brother and his girlfriend and her father.peace,love,and hope,pk
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Sending positive vibes your way****** for you, your brother and his girlfriend!Peace & Love,Gigi
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Best thoughts for your brother and his girlfriend, and free cluons for your mom that she might realize that perhaps it wasn't the guy's plan to die on her son's birthday. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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so sad to hear about that lilly. sincere sympathy. warmest hugs and ++++++++ vibes to you and your brother and family. love and peace.
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gee i am not sure waht to say i am not good at dealing with aloss of a family member...i wish i could come by and give you and your family a hug...
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Shock comes, then numbness, then warm vibes from your friends so you can feel again. May you know that we all love you and send shining beams of light to your heart everyday, but especially today. Why? Because it's a family man! ~peace~ _____________________________________________ Will you come with me? Once in awhile you can get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right!
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For the support everyone. It helps with a bad case of "too damn far away". ********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
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Sending enormous hugs and healing rays of strength and comfort to you and your brother and his girlfriend...
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We are all here for you in your time of need. HUGE HUGS and lots of shining rays of positive vibes for you and your family.Peace and love from all of us to you, Moye
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positive vibes to you all and peace...
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My youngest sister (53yrs) passed away unexpectly about two weeks ago. She leaves an older step-daughter and a young son, 16. Their father passed away about a year and a half ago. We are overwhelmed by this loss. I never posted in this forum before but I always read it. All of you are good hearted people. I come to this site because of the joy and peace it generates. All of you are an anchor to me, even in the best of times. I thank you all for letting me be in such endlessly "kind" company.
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My heartfelt sympathy to you and yours. Wellbeams to deal with the sadness that surrounds your family at this time. May gentle times and kind hearts prevail as everyone struggles to make sense and connect but may not always seem to say it 'right'. Rene, I gave your get well message to pk, and I am hopeful that such healing can return ("the wheel is turning and you can't slow it down") to help your family tenfold. You are the heart of our deadnet family and although the intensity of your passion at times may seem a burden, it is at that core where we all do connect. Take care, Tim The Truth is realized in an instant, the act is practiced step by step.
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I am so sorry for you & yours & that I'm just reading this. Healing Vibes to ALL! Love you ~ Leanne Even a " Hells Bells" won't do in this situation......
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Many condolences to you and your family for your family's loss of your sister. May you all be strong and gain strength together and grow in love towards each other. May the memory of your sister bring countless smiles to your face and joy to your heart. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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May your brother and his girlfriend have much strength and peace of heart to deal with this tough situation. As well as the whole extended family. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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sorry for your loss......that is too young, and with kids...you and yours are in my thots and prayers..
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docks, sincere sympathy for your loss.
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I am disheartened to hear of your loss too. Just remember that your tag says it all, go to the Docks of The City and feel the warmness that surrounds you (especially the people that love you in here). May you get through this hard time not without the waves, but the strength to let the pillars of your dock stay firm throughout all those waves! Group ~Hugs~ Critter _____________________________________________ Will you come with me? Once in awhile you can get shown the light in the strangest of places if you look at it right!
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docks of the city said: >I come to this site because of the joy >and peace it generates >All of you are an anchor to me, >even in the best of times. >I thank you all for letting me be >in such endlessly "kind" company. docks of the city, that is a beautiful sentiment. I feel the same way. This beautiful place in ourselves is also the source of our strength. I will keep your sister in thought, in this place of shining light. Eyes of the World Right outside this lazy summer home You ain't got time to call your soul a critic, no Right outside the lazy gate Of winter's summer home Wondering where the nuthatch winter's Wings a mile long Just carried the bird away Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world But the heart has its beaches, its homeland and thoughts of its own Wake now discover that you are the song that the morning brings But the heart has its seasons, its evenings and songs of its own There comes a redeemer and he slowly, too, fades away And there follows his wagon behind him that's loaded with clay And the seeds that were silent all burst into bloom and decay And night comes so quiet, its close on the heels of the day Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world But the heart has its beaches, its homeland and thoughts of its own Wake now discover that you are the song that the morning brings But the heart has its seasons, its evenings and songs of its own Sometimes we live no particular way but our own And sometimes we visit your country and live in your home Sometimes we ride on your horses, sometimes we walk alone Sometimes the songs that we hear are just songs of our own Wake up to find out that you are the eyes of the world But the heart has its beaches, its homeland and thoughts of its own Wake now discover that you are the song that the morning brings But the heart has its seasons, its evenings and songs of its own Eyes Of The World Lyrics By: Robert Hunter
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Sending you love, light, strength and prayers to see through the loss of your sister now, and in those tough moments. Wish I could give you a rainbow...
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i'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your sister docks! much peace and love to you and to her kids. gentle bear hugs for all of you!peace
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Am soo sorry to read of your tragic loss. My thoughts are with you, and especially the children of your sister. Healing for all of you.********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
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Best thoughts of peace and strength to you, your step-niece and nephew. May the fulness of good memories of your sister overwhelm the absence caused by her passing. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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So sorry for your losses. Sending sincere comfort and light for you and your families. Peace, carolyn
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comfort vibes to you and your family..i wish i was there so i could give all of you a hug
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so sorry to hear this. Much comfort to you and your family.
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I wish to thank all of you for your warm words. I have a couple of standout memories of my sister that are sustaining me. One is from when she was 11, we took her with us, her three older sisters. to the Human Be-In in Golden Gate Park. We dressed her up in vibrant red Mexican pancho that belonged to me, and homemade beads. She wore the same outfit to her first Fillmore concert, perhaps the same year. It was a sunday afternoon show and the Mothers of Invention played. She laughted in the strobe. I can see her now. I talked to her son about an hour ago and he is listening to the Beatles. and so it goes........... Peace & Music, down by the docks of the city.
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may they sing to you throughout the years If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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that Sunshine Daydream needs our collective good vibes. He has been worried about his very old cat Simi, not eating and wasting away. He thinks she is dying. Today's the 2nd day S.D.'s not been online (usually we speak on messenger every day) and I am getting concerned about him. Please help me wish Simi a full recovery, and S.D. some kind thoughts.********************************** It's the end of the world as we know it, and I feel fine
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to bob and his simi, please
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for Bob and Simi. Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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My best friend (whom iv'e been to lots of dead shows with) wife is 3 months pregent. Yesterday, they recently found out that the baby might possibly be deceised. Please throw some positive vibes their way, Jeff and Nicole Harren are there names and they allready have a beautiful 2 year old daughter. Jeff logs in on Dead.net once in a while. His screen name is kottonmouth jeff. Thanks all.Peace- Moye