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  • wildlifer82
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    Hey guys, just moved to Salem, OR and looking to meet some fellow deadheads... drop me a line if you're even close to me (Portland - Eugene) or really anywhere - the more the marrier! peace and music, Matt
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    Just wondering if anyone knew where I might find Brian Ahier McCabe. We were Brian and Karen from the Haight from 1990 to 1999. Last saw him on 16th and Mission early 1999. Just wondering if we are still legally married and how he is doing. Also Don Todd, Texas Dave etc. etc.... you know who you are... I would love to hear from you
  • Thedeadheadmommy
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    Morgan Griggs of VA 7 the Southwest & Andrea Watson of Nantucket
    looking for these old friends too....I know it's a shot in the dark, but hey, gotta try, right?!
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    I am looking for 2 old tour buddies...Bill Todd, lived in Cockeysville MD in early 90's....Mike Harris lived in Pensacola FL and Bay St Louis in the late 90's...always looking for any DHs on the North Shore...I was on tour from 91-94, love to find folks who were around then
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    I am Looking for Deadheads in NYC or Westfield NJ
    I am looking for like minded (see profile) Dead Heads to communicate with and possible build friendships. I am married with a kid and one on the way. I own a home in Westfield, NJ and work in NYC. Hope to hear from you.
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    I wish to Inform the Deadhead community that my Best Friend in the entire world as passed and any fellow heads that would know him (and there were many, many heads)should know that this happened, particularily Tony in Portland that i do not know how to contact but I saw at the 2004 show there with the Dead. Andy was a model deadhead in his belief system or principals. Jerry would of have been proud to call him friend , he never wanted to be a typical fan or hassle anyone at anytime. He was my music partner we went to so many shows together , the ones on my profile is a small sampling. His knowledge of the music and the Dead plus numerous other band community was like a library of knowledge , The vault people could of used Andy. The following is his Obit and the DEADHEADS worldwide weather you knew him or not, should heed to his passing. His story is 30 years plus and amazing. It would take more space than I'm provided to tell the story from beginning to end. I have been given his music collection , which is quite extensive in tapes as well as CD's , Probably more than 3000 pieces or more. I will be cataloging this collection of live shows and all. The following is the OBIT , My Tears have flown for three days now since I found out. Yesterday was the big day for the furneral and being with his family. I have known Andy since we were 15 years old. John Andrew "Andy" Vojtko John Andrew "Andy" Vojtko of Libertyville Visitation for John Andrew "Andy" Vojtko, 45, will be from 1 p.m. until the time of the services at 2 p.m. Saturday, June 28, at Holy Cross Lutheran Church, 29700 N. St. Mary's Road, Libertyville, with Pastor Robert Davis officiating. Born Aug. 18, 1962, in Libertyville, he passed away Wednesday, June 25, 2008. Andy had lived in the Libertyville-Mundelein area all his life. He was a 1980 graduate of Libertyville High School, received an associates degree from the College of Lake County and attended Illinois State University. He was a charter member of Holy Cross Lutheran Church in Libertyville and was employed as a cook at Winchester House for many years. Andy enjoyed music, model trains, the outdoors, various pets and cooking. Surviving are his parents, Gerald and Delores Vojtko of Libertyville; two sisters, Jane (Charles) Binning of Cornville, Ariz. and Lynne (Darren) Rogers of Wauconda; and his favorite nephew and niece, Ethan and Brianna Rogers. Memorial contributions can be made to your favorite charity. Arrangements were made by Burnett-Dane Funeral Home, Libertyville, 847-362-3009. Published in the Chicago Suburban Daily Herald on 6/27/2008.
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    Are we there yet
    Hoping Heathaafethaa is well. Also, Kim(?) Did you ever make it to RatDog down Jacksonville way?
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    I am trying to find Scotty Dank. He sold the Dank and Schwag T-Shirts on tour. Everyone knew him and we traveled together but now I can not find him. I need to talk to him. Please help me fellow Dead Heads. I know one of you knows where he can be found.
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    long lost love
    saw your name on album and had a big wonder for BW.email no5bluevandriver@yahoo.com
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    If anybody out there happens to know a guy named Marc Bose please forward my request to him to write me. He lived in Frankfurt, Germany back in the mid/late 90s. We shared many a good tape and beer together. Thanks! Chris Perry Columbus, OH perrycj@hotmail.com
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Have regard for your covenant, because haunts of violence fill the dark places of the land. Do not let the oppressed retreat in disgrace; may the poor and needy praise your name. Psalm 74 Looking for all Dead Heads in Darrow or Compton at BGSU! Radio DJ, Pool Man, Cliff, and any others, very bad with names, my only dead album back then was Workingman's Dead but there were some others that had every album at BGSU
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I was the guy in the floor level crip section in a purple wheelchair. Names I remember: Wayne and Judy. Wayne saw his first show in '68, Judy around '90 like me. Then there was the bald dude with the iPhone I talked to of and on through most of the show, and then there was the usher who volunteered for the shows who I had a really nice chat with and who basically danced the night away as far as I could tell - and did her "job" at the same time. Neat! Oh, and the guy in the white shirt I chatted with on BART on the way to the show. Anyway, I had a great time and you all were beautiful. :) Please contact me if you are comfortable doing so, even if I didn't mention you.
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Hey folks,I'm a british deadhead who recently got married and moved back to the states after 20 years(now living in Tennessee). Between 1989 and 1991 I was on and off tour and attended around 75 shows in total. I had some good friends back then and I'm wondering if any of them are still deadheads or linked up to the scene in some way? Its been ages but if anyone knows these folks please let them know I'm on this forum and ask them to get in touch. 'Greg' lived in Washington state and drove a black chevy van to every show in 1991. He had long black hair and beard. He said the Deadheads was his only family because sadly he'd lost his real family in a car crash. We toured together in the Fall tour 1991 and drove from the West coast to 3 shows in Ohio, and then the 9 night run at MSG in NYC. Those were my last shows and I flew back to England after that. In Spring tour 1989 I knew this cool couple Greg and Christine; we toured the last half of Spring tour 1989 starting in Cleveland, and going to Milwaukee, Chicago, Minnesota Stpaul. We then travelled back to the West coast, spending a week at Cougar Hot springs on route, and finally ending up in Santa Cruz, where we lived all summer. Actually theres a whole bunch of folks I knew back from tour in 1989, some of which I'm still in touch with, but mostly lost contact with: Chris and TJ (the hitchhikers to Atlanta), Chris and Amy, Chet, Jim (who drove us all the way in his van)? Anybody still in touch with these folk from '89? Suuch a long shot, but hey, just though it would be interesting to post... Lookin' forward to some 2010 shows... Jules the astrologer
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Hey all, Looking for local simi valley in's who listen to the Grateful Dead!!!!! We like to go to shows and hiking send us a message if your in town or looking for some good people to go to a show with....... ~Anthony and Sherry~
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Looking for anyone who remembers my brother, Brent. He was a wonderful spirit living his life from a wheelchair from Delaware. You would of met him on the east coast around 1980-1995. Thank you, Chrissy
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Anyone k nows Waterfall who was living at 548 Ashbury street in San Francisco ,in the eighties and nighties ?
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hey, looking for kind folks in Alaska. Guess i'm the only one with a SYF on my car in Anchorage. gotta get the boys to play up here "just one more time" and again and again and again
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Looking for Mike, a guy who used to sell his paintings in the parking lot at shows around 1990 - 1991. Met in San Francisco, never knew his last name though.
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As a video game geek, and a Dead fan, I was overjoyed to find Rockband2 on the PS3 console has GD dloads. Anyone out there who plays RB2 on PS3 , add me...sleepymonkey420, and Ribsanwhiskey... i play under both screennames.thanks, hope to find some other heads to jam with.
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oakland dupree looking for my old pal Bob Clark originally from 55 Donna Way Oakland Calif.--- last heard maybe in Oregon--- Hey man, are you alive and well ?.... or have you gone with the Emergency Crew?
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Looking for any who I run with back in the day.My wife is Renae and We had two dogs named Shala and Irie.We had A green van and Skippy and Kari rode with us most of the time.Hit me back.I know some of us had to survive.We ruled the lot.before swily gutter punks moved in.(not talking to Todd or Emley or Germ)Wowps haight street marleen ?-92 rip who can't forget her.lol
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Hello, I am looking for Mick Whaley who I knew years ago. Please send me a message! Thanks,
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Hello, I'm looking for Mick Whaley, who I knew years ago. Please get in touch! Thanks so much, boxofraininct
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Hey, Looking for Jeff aka Bluebird. This is Kathy-- you found Larry and I at the Denver show last May and, space cadets that we are, we forgot to get any info for you. We'd love to get in touch again. Please drop a line if you spot this.
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We knew each other in Eugene, Oregon. We hung out with Heather, Thayer, Andy and Marmaduchess. You had a beautiful baby girl named Sonja. You came back to Philly and I moved back to NYC. I am so sorry we lost touch.You are a great gal and I miss ya. - Kat konbongos@yahoo.com
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WHAT HAPPEND TO FAST EDDIE AND THE REST OF THE CREW FROM THE PARK IN BERKLY?ANY ONE KNOW?
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Just on the off chance that Amy or Alan might be reading this...Recently came across old photos from Buck Eye Lake, Hampton road trips, school days in D.C., etc. Miss you!!! Wish we hadn't lost touch and would really like to find both of you. Carolyn
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Hey everybody - is there any deadheads in Paris area, France?? Just moved here and would like to ease my homesickness...
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janis phillips are you out there? its been many moons. last seen in colorado manitou springs.you could be anywhere now. ive been alot of places seen alot of women but you never scaped my mind. pon umbre bobbyb620@yahoo.com
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check out for "le forum français du Grateful dead".
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Lost friend'sOn December 8th, 2009 Bobby Z said: Very very new here. Trying to find where to post to find long lost friend's. Namely 1 Jim davis. Lived in Dothan,Alabama in mid 80's. ANY info would make my soul feel good. Mail me at gentryclan@netzero.net. And be sure to turn on ya love light.....
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For those of you who've been following this forum and wondering if anyone ever hooks up with old friends, well, yes, they do! Yesterday I saw the message that Brent's sister left and I called her. She wasn't home, but I had a nice chat with her husband and look forward to talking to Chrissy soon. I also heard from someone I'd never met who knew Brent. So if you're looking for some long lost friend, don't give up hope. They're out there somewhere! BTW I'd still love to hear from Chris Currado or anyone else who knew Brent. marj_mcc@yahoo.com
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Hey - I know this is a shot in the dark !! But, I am looking for a beautiful women who I met @ Hammerstein Ballroom @ the second nights show. You were wearing a green tank top and were at the show with your sister . We were hanging in the front right floor during the end of the first set and than I did not see you again !! All I can say is that I think I fell in love with you and I am so sad :( I did not see you again !!! I was there with my tall friend Steve - please send me a message -
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Todd from West Virginia who was in the cellular phone busines in NC back in 1990. Did a lot of nice taping.
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The kid who used to sniff modelling glue as a toddler is wondering what happened to his cousin who was forced to compete in beauty-pageants as a toddler. Much laughs to this day on that comment, bro I hope you and your posse are alive and well.
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Naomi "Sunshine" is my Sister. We were all called "the kids" "ropeheads" & "swingers" back then, on tour. I am looking for Gus & Butter, Mia, Todd, Billy, Tyeffa & Jubilee, Trey, Kam, Skye & Lance, Neil & Debbie, all the rest of you guys & who ever else is still out in Hawaii. I was on Tour from the Orlando Show in April 1991 to the Boston shows in 1993, than a lot of us went out to Hawaii with Kam. I told all you guys to come with. Quazar, I told you so.
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looking for "skully" and his dog Karma. last known was yonder or panic tour fall 2009. iowa here skully.Also looking for a sister named "spirit" Lawrence ,Kansas area. Havent saw you since the Phil show in K.C. 2008
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any heads in the southwest region (arizona and/or ?)
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lookin for any deadheads in germany i just got deported here for marijuana charges n need to find some deadheads here. im living in frankfurt for now but thinking of going to hamburg this spring, so if ur out here somewhere write bac n let me know thanks
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I'm lookin' for Kevo.I can't really give much more info than that, but kinda need to find him and make sure he's safe. Much love. <3
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Looking for my old friend, Jeff. We lived on the same block in Newport News, VA from 1986-1988? You and Scott, who also lived on same block, introduced me to the the music and you guys took me and my son Paul to our first Dead shows at Hampton Coliseum in 1987. I also took you to my family Thanksgiving gathering one year. You were originally from CA (the Bay area I believe) and I think you moved back there. If you see this please send me a private message or a post here. Would love to hear from you! Preston
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....HELP!!!!!I am from the czech rep.and i need to go to England to find a job.in fact i count a week stay to get the information that i need,but as i am from the former east block a week in a english hotel is bigtime Luxury for me.Aint there someone who could let me crash in his place for a few days?of course i would pay for it because it would be grate to stay with some likeminded person instead of comin in and bein lost,because i never visited the british iles.In fact maybe some DH might be eager to employ me.My force is the languages i speak[english,french,german,spanish and czech..],but i am ready to do whatever!!If u might be in the place to help me,please take a look at my profile[FRANKLY]and send me a PM.Thank you for just readin my add...;))))Frankly from Pilsen
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Flickster Has anybody seen Chilly Willy, or Brother Bear(Greg)? Hope you guys are still on the planetand getb in touch if you are.Think about you guys often and it would do my heart good to hear from ya.
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Flickster hey,How about The Fatman, you out there anywhere?It's been too many years.
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During the last few months of the 1995 Summer right before...well?you know...R.I.P. & Respect!I jumped on tour with Shane in Vegas at the Silver Bowl opening show of Summer Tour...We hitchhiked across 400+ miles of burning desert together to rage the Taos/Tres Piadres National Rainbow Gathering in Carson National Forest...We ended up traveling together for months after up the West Coast after Jerrys passing and into the Southern parts of Oregon. I last saw Shane/Tree in Memphis, Tenn. sometime during the early summer of 1997- ...i have not been able to locate his where-abouts since...... Miss ya brotha!!!
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its been too many years since i last saw the crew from Springfield Missouri...Where is the MO-LOVE crew...i miss the kilt wearing antics of my brotha Laddy!!!where are you? >Joker
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Looking for Phil Wilson - not, not the trombone-blowing Brit jazzer. This Phil Wilson ... Born/raised in Newcastle, Australia. Lived NZ (Dunedin/Careys Bay) early to mid-'70s. Lived London (Swiss Cottage/Honest Jon's Records) late '70s. Since then? I'd love to know. His then partner's name was Ali, and I'd love to catch up with either/both of 'em Kenny
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thanks Kenny..brings back hazy memories of crazy times in Ladbroke Grove and Portobello Road. Sorry, don't remember Phil though.
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I am looking for a Bob Lewis who lived in Bayshore NY Many years ago. I think he lives in W Virginia. If anyone knows him, Please email me smberman08@gmail.com
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I'v been looking for my dog since september. Her name is RainyDay. She is a brendle boxer and around 2yrs old. I took ownership of her last year . Just to finde out that the guy I got her from stole her from lot as a puppy.I thought that it was cool that she made it back. She is loved by my children and myself . When I got her she definatly needed some love and care. She became one of my children very quick. Her head was to count in a rowe of children under blankets at night. She got a bed time kiss as well. My husband did a very shady thing. He asked if he could keep her with him while I took a run to oregon with my children to pick up my oldest boy. He said he just wanted to have some one to sleep next to while I was gone. Just houres after I left he passed her off to some traviler some where between sonoma and mendo county and then he him self left and I havn't seen ethore since. A friend said they had seen RainyDay with some kid outside of Willits CA in september and they where heading south. We are still looking for her and lover her very much.If you have heard of her or have seen her since september please let me know. I'm afrade she's being handed off and not loved and taken care of properly.We've lost everything inclouding daddy. So we just want are dog back!Lovin you all