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    mike naughton from chucky v or mark kanyok from the abe
    contact johnman here at dead.net......mike ya didnt show up at ventura..........and mark ya stopped callin'....thot ya had a plane ride? john tulare
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    Looking for my father....
    I've recently been on a quest to find out "who's my daddy..." I contacted both the adoption agency as well as a private investigating agency to assist me. According to both sources my biological father was a drummer for a very popular band which is still known today. They would not release the name...only non-identifying information. They also told me he had dark brown/black hair and blue eyes. Contact was then made with my biological grandfather and he said it was the Grateful Dead....do you think this could be possible? I promise I'm not a crazy person....just someone trying to find my roots. Don't want to interrupt or cause chaos in anyone's lives, nor am I looking to gain anything other than knowledge of where I came from. If anyone thinks they can help me with this....I'd be GRATEFUL!
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    Looking for Jane!!
    Jane is a beautiful lady with long red hair, always wore it braided. She lived in Colorado in the 80's. We did the Europe tour in '90 together, with her boyfriend Jason, think Jason was a taper for awhile. I'd love to know how you're doing Jane!! Also would love to know where Brian Sheehy is these days. He would always show up late to our usual table for Jerry shows at the Warfield, throw his backpack down and sit on the top of our table.
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    Well, I'm looking for this
    Well, I'm looking for this guy who gave me his ticket for my first Dead show August 5th 89 in Cal Expo saying "Take mine, it's your first show!". I don't know anything about him and I got only this fuzzy picture you should find on my fan photo site. Read the whole story here: http://www.dead.net/forum/deadheads-europe?page=36 (Posted: May 30, 2008 - 2:00pm). Although it was almost 20 years ago, I really would like to thank him as from there on, I am a deadhead, you understand?Anybody can help? Ah wait, this girl who gave me the ride and was kind of in love with him, her name was Alissa. Thank you all, Frank --- www.stash-radio.de
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    FEEL LIKE A STRANGER!
    MY ROAD LESS TRAVELED HAS BROUGHT ME TO VEGAS-IN SEARCH OF KINDNESS AND LIKEMINDEDNESS
  • OneGratefulDad
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    Where's Gary Bennet in Jersey?
    As a lot of us have, when the scene disappeared, so did a lot of our friends. I am looking for Gary Bennett, last known to be in Howell NJ. It's been a long time and I miss my old tour partner, roommate, friend and brother. If you know him, please tell him or me. -j (sheepdog) Inspiration...Move me brightly....Light the song with sense and color, Hold away despair...
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    hit me up y'all
    I was on tour from summer 1986 until fall 1989. I lived in Santa Cruz, San Francisco, Providence, Boston and Cape Cod during those years. I was probably best known by my miniature German Shepard "Sammy". People I hung with were Johnny and Phil, Amiee and DeeDee Grimes, Jeffrey, BJ, Markie from Providence, John Sage and Phil Kantz(RIP) John's Brother Danny, Kat, Jeri Greer, Laura and Linda from Richmond, Swedish Rob, Andrea Adams, John Geoghan, Charlie, Digger, Fast Eddie and Rack and so many more great kids around tour at that time.
  • TommyHolland
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    Tour 1986 to 1989
    Hey all it's Tommy from Boston/Providence just looking to reconnect with any of my old friends. tomholland29@hotmail.com
  • Jim Bear
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    Chris Jones
    I am looking for a brother by the name of Chris Jones from Pennsylvania. He went to Edinboro in 91-92ish and left for Montana(?) shortly thereafter. He is a kindred spirit and dear friend who I have been unsuccessfuly able to locate for all these years...
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    looking for a female singer,in South Florida
    The Wheel in south Florida looking for a female singer,all experienced players, have gigs, must know Dead/Dylan extensively as well as learn our originals www.myspace.com/spasejam some links to are music http://www.youtube.com/ watch?v=g4Cc4Haevi4 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U6IK6wZFPRg http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-K5v-YeaDcY and then if your still interested we will send you directions to rehearsal/audition e-mail us spasejam@aol.com
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Have regard for your covenant, because haunts of violence fill the dark places of the land. Do not let the oppressed retreat in disgrace; may the poor and needy praise your name. Psalm 74 Looking for all Dead Heads in Darrow or Compton at BGSU! Radio DJ, Pool Man, Cliff, and any others, very bad with names, my only dead album back then was Workingman's Dead but there were some others that had every album at BGSU
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I was the guy in the floor level crip section in a purple wheelchair. Names I remember: Wayne and Judy. Wayne saw his first show in '68, Judy around '90 like me. Then there was the bald dude with the iPhone I talked to of and on through most of the show, and then there was the usher who volunteered for the shows who I had a really nice chat with and who basically danced the night away as far as I could tell - and did her "job" at the same time. Neat! Oh, and the guy in the white shirt I chatted with on BART on the way to the show. Anyway, I had a great time and you all were beautiful. :) Please contact me if you are comfortable doing so, even if I didn't mention you.
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Hey folks,I'm a british deadhead who recently got married and moved back to the states after 20 years(now living in Tennessee). Between 1989 and 1991 I was on and off tour and attended around 75 shows in total. I had some good friends back then and I'm wondering if any of them are still deadheads or linked up to the scene in some way? Its been ages but if anyone knows these folks please let them know I'm on this forum and ask them to get in touch. 'Greg' lived in Washington state and drove a black chevy van to every show in 1991. He had long black hair and beard. He said the Deadheads was his only family because sadly he'd lost his real family in a car crash. We toured together in the Fall tour 1991 and drove from the West coast to 3 shows in Ohio, and then the 9 night run at MSG in NYC. Those were my last shows and I flew back to England after that. In Spring tour 1989 I knew this cool couple Greg and Christine; we toured the last half of Spring tour 1989 starting in Cleveland, and going to Milwaukee, Chicago, Minnesota Stpaul. We then travelled back to the West coast, spending a week at Cougar Hot springs on route, and finally ending up in Santa Cruz, where we lived all summer. Actually theres a whole bunch of folks I knew back from tour in 1989, some of which I'm still in touch with, but mostly lost contact with: Chris and TJ (the hitchhikers to Atlanta), Chris and Amy, Chet, Jim (who drove us all the way in his van)? Anybody still in touch with these folk from '89? Suuch a long shot, but hey, just though it would be interesting to post... Lookin' forward to some 2010 shows... Jules the astrologer
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Hey all, Looking for local simi valley in's who listen to the Grateful Dead!!!!! We like to go to shows and hiking send us a message if your in town or looking for some good people to go to a show with....... ~Anthony and Sherry~
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Looking for anyone who remembers my brother, Brent. He was a wonderful spirit living his life from a wheelchair from Delaware. You would of met him on the east coast around 1980-1995. Thank you, Chrissy
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Anyone k nows Waterfall who was living at 548 Ashbury street in San Francisco ,in the eighties and nighties ?
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hey, looking for kind folks in Alaska. Guess i'm the only one with a SYF on my car in Anchorage. gotta get the boys to play up here "just one more time" and again and again and again
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Looking for Mike, a guy who used to sell his paintings in the parking lot at shows around 1990 - 1991. Met in San Francisco, never knew his last name though.
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As a video game geek, and a Dead fan, I was overjoyed to find Rockband2 on the PS3 console has GD dloads. Anyone out there who plays RB2 on PS3 , add me...sleepymonkey420, and Ribsanwhiskey... i play under both screennames.thanks, hope to find some other heads to jam with.
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oakland dupree looking for my old pal Bob Clark originally from 55 Donna Way Oakland Calif.--- last heard maybe in Oregon--- Hey man, are you alive and well ?.... or have you gone with the Emergency Crew?
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Looking for any who I run with back in the day.My wife is Renae and We had two dogs named Shala and Irie.We had A green van and Skippy and Kari rode with us most of the time.Hit me back.I know some of us had to survive.We ruled the lot.before swily gutter punks moved in.(not talking to Todd or Emley or Germ)Wowps haight street marleen ?-92 rip who can't forget her.lol
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Hello, I am looking for Mick Whaley who I knew years ago. Please send me a message! Thanks,
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Hello, I'm looking for Mick Whaley, who I knew years ago. Please get in touch! Thanks so much, boxofraininct
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Hey, Looking for Jeff aka Bluebird. This is Kathy-- you found Larry and I at the Denver show last May and, space cadets that we are, we forgot to get any info for you. We'd love to get in touch again. Please drop a line if you spot this.
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We knew each other in Eugene, Oregon. We hung out with Heather, Thayer, Andy and Marmaduchess. You had a beautiful baby girl named Sonja. You came back to Philly and I moved back to NYC. I am so sorry we lost touch.You are a great gal and I miss ya. - Kat konbongos@yahoo.com
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WHAT HAPPEND TO FAST EDDIE AND THE REST OF THE CREW FROM THE PARK IN BERKLY?ANY ONE KNOW?
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Just on the off chance that Amy or Alan might be reading this...Recently came across old photos from Buck Eye Lake, Hampton road trips, school days in D.C., etc. Miss you!!! Wish we hadn't lost touch and would really like to find both of you. Carolyn
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Hey everybody - is there any deadheads in Paris area, France?? Just moved here and would like to ease my homesickness...
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janis phillips are you out there? its been many moons. last seen in colorado manitou springs.you could be anywhere now. ive been alot of places seen alot of women but you never scaped my mind. pon umbre bobbyb620@yahoo.com
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check out for "le forum français du Grateful dead".
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Lost friend'sOn December 8th, 2009 Bobby Z said: Very very new here. Trying to find where to post to find long lost friend's. Namely 1 Jim davis. Lived in Dothan,Alabama in mid 80's. ANY info would make my soul feel good. Mail me at gentryclan@netzero.net. And be sure to turn on ya love light.....
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For those of you who've been following this forum and wondering if anyone ever hooks up with old friends, well, yes, they do! Yesterday I saw the message that Brent's sister left and I called her. She wasn't home, but I had a nice chat with her husband and look forward to talking to Chrissy soon. I also heard from someone I'd never met who knew Brent. So if you're looking for some long lost friend, don't give up hope. They're out there somewhere! BTW I'd still love to hear from Chris Currado or anyone else who knew Brent. marj_mcc@yahoo.com
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Hey - I know this is a shot in the dark !! But, I am looking for a beautiful women who I met @ Hammerstein Ballroom @ the second nights show. You were wearing a green tank top and were at the show with your sister . We were hanging in the front right floor during the end of the first set and than I did not see you again !! All I can say is that I think I fell in love with you and I am so sad :( I did not see you again !!! I was there with my tall friend Steve - please send me a message -
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Todd from West Virginia who was in the cellular phone busines in NC back in 1990. Did a lot of nice taping.
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The kid who used to sniff modelling glue as a toddler is wondering what happened to his cousin who was forced to compete in beauty-pageants as a toddler. Much laughs to this day on that comment, bro I hope you and your posse are alive and well.
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Naomi "Sunshine" is my Sister. We were all called "the kids" "ropeheads" & "swingers" back then, on tour. I am looking for Gus & Butter, Mia, Todd, Billy, Tyeffa & Jubilee, Trey, Kam, Skye & Lance, Neil & Debbie, all the rest of you guys & who ever else is still out in Hawaii. I was on Tour from the Orlando Show in April 1991 to the Boston shows in 1993, than a lot of us went out to Hawaii with Kam. I told all you guys to come with. Quazar, I told you so.
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looking for "skully" and his dog Karma. last known was yonder or panic tour fall 2009. iowa here skully.Also looking for a sister named "spirit" Lawrence ,Kansas area. Havent saw you since the Phil show in K.C. 2008
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any heads in the southwest region (arizona and/or ?)
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lookin for any deadheads in germany i just got deported here for marijuana charges n need to find some deadheads here. im living in frankfurt for now but thinking of going to hamburg this spring, so if ur out here somewhere write bac n let me know thanks
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I'm lookin' for Kevo.I can't really give much more info than that, but kinda need to find him and make sure he's safe. Much love. <3
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Looking for my old friend, Jeff. We lived on the same block in Newport News, VA from 1986-1988? You and Scott, who also lived on same block, introduced me to the the music and you guys took me and my son Paul to our first Dead shows at Hampton Coliseum in 1987. I also took you to my family Thanksgiving gathering one year. You were originally from CA (the Bay area I believe) and I think you moved back there. If you see this please send me a private message or a post here. Would love to hear from you! Preston
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....HELP!!!!!I am from the czech rep.and i need to go to England to find a job.in fact i count a week stay to get the information that i need,but as i am from the former east block a week in a english hotel is bigtime Luxury for me.Aint there someone who could let me crash in his place for a few days?of course i would pay for it because it would be grate to stay with some likeminded person instead of comin in and bein lost,because i never visited the british iles.In fact maybe some DH might be eager to employ me.My force is the languages i speak[english,french,german,spanish and czech..],but i am ready to do whatever!!If u might be in the place to help me,please take a look at my profile[FRANKLY]and send me a PM.Thank you for just readin my add...;))))Frankly from Pilsen
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Flickster Has anybody seen Chilly Willy, or Brother Bear(Greg)? Hope you guys are still on the planetand getb in touch if you are.Think about you guys often and it would do my heart good to hear from ya.
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Flickster hey,How about The Fatman, you out there anywhere?It's been too many years.
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During the last few months of the 1995 Summer right before...well?you know...R.I.P. & Respect!I jumped on tour with Shane in Vegas at the Silver Bowl opening show of Summer Tour...We hitchhiked across 400+ miles of burning desert together to rage the Taos/Tres Piadres National Rainbow Gathering in Carson National Forest...We ended up traveling together for months after up the West Coast after Jerrys passing and into the Southern parts of Oregon. I last saw Shane/Tree in Memphis, Tenn. sometime during the early summer of 1997- ...i have not been able to locate his where-abouts since...... Miss ya brotha!!!
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its been too many years since i last saw the crew from Springfield Missouri...Where is the MO-LOVE crew...i miss the kilt wearing antics of my brotha Laddy!!!where are you? >Joker
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Looking for Phil Wilson - not, not the trombone-blowing Brit jazzer. This Phil Wilson ... Born/raised in Newcastle, Australia. Lived NZ (Dunedin/Careys Bay) early to mid-'70s. Lived London (Swiss Cottage/Honest Jon's Records) late '70s. Since then? I'd love to know. His then partner's name was Ali, and I'd love to catch up with either/both of 'em Kenny
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thanks Kenny..brings back hazy memories of crazy times in Ladbroke Grove and Portobello Road. Sorry, don't remember Phil though.
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I am looking for a Bob Lewis who lived in Bayshore NY Many years ago. I think he lives in W Virginia. If anyone knows him, Please email me smberman08@gmail.com
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I'v been looking for my dog since september. Her name is RainyDay. She is a brendle boxer and around 2yrs old. I took ownership of her last year . Just to finde out that the guy I got her from stole her from lot as a puppy.I thought that it was cool that she made it back. She is loved by my children and myself . When I got her she definatly needed some love and care. She became one of my children very quick. Her head was to count in a rowe of children under blankets at night. She got a bed time kiss as well. My husband did a very shady thing. He asked if he could keep her with him while I took a run to oregon with my children to pick up my oldest boy. He said he just wanted to have some one to sleep next to while I was gone. Just houres after I left he passed her off to some traviler some where between sonoma and mendo county and then he him self left and I havn't seen ethore since. A friend said they had seen RainyDay with some kid outside of Willits CA in september and they where heading south. We are still looking for her and lover her very much.If you have heard of her or have seen her since september please let me know. I'm afrade she's being handed off and not loved and taken care of properly.We've lost everything inclouding daddy. So we just want are dog back!Lovin you all