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    marye
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    So, we've all had some great conversations interrupted by that misbehaving chatroom lately. Mr. Pid wrote a great song on the subject...

    Feel free to pick them up again here. Or report your more surreal episodes of being booted for misbehaving. 

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  • mona
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    hey
    vvhat johnman said :)
  • JackstrawfromC…
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    My experience
    With chat rooms and not necessarily at dead.net is that the people who are shady i.e. pose threats are in fact juveniles in the 10-12 year old range. It doesn't mean there isn't a more sinister plot going on too but the majority are kids being stupid. After watching what they write for awhile it is painfully obvious what their age is.. "Here's my half a dollar if you dare .. double twist when you hit the air. Look at Julie down below .. the levee doing the dopaso"
  • marye
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    yeah
    the logging thing is available to one and all. But the fact that people are getting into the chatroom without logging onto Dead.net is a problem.
  • cosmicbadger
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    some thoughts
    Thank you Marye. I am sure everyone appreciates deadnet hosting the Chatroom and as Swan has mentioned, it is not an issue of permanent moderation: in general conflicts have been sorted out pretty quick there. But the lack of security makes it far too easy for those few people with bad intentions to exploit and abuse others. In fact have now discovered just how easy it is to ‘break into’ the chatroom from outside. My understanding is that Gagalive is a free internet Chatroom service that has been embedded in deadnet and that it could be hard for Deadnet to impose its own additional security on it. But I am not an expert on these things. It has also dawned on me that as long as you are logged into the CR you can scroll back through (and therefore copy/paste) all the chat from the moment you logged in. So if you stay anonymously logged on for hours or days from the outside (like some people appear to do) you may be able just to copy everything that has gone on. I was going to do an experiment to test this, but eavesdropping even for a few moments makes me feel really bad, so I won’t. If the chat record has a much shorter life (a few minutes) it might make systematic logging much more hassle. Hope this helps CB
  • Anonymous (not verified)
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    may i suggest ideas about chatroom's safety
    for sure i want this chat room to keep going , and want topics to be discussed without " politically correct " restrains about opinions . The real urgency , methinks, is about safety settings in 3 easy steps ; 1) anyone wanting access to chatroom must be fist logged in at dead.net and 2) must first be a registered member with dead.net (with a valid e-mail) , and 3) gagalive/deadnet must install specific settings to not allow access to chatplace by bypassing login and registration at deadnet . These can be practical answers for safety , and to complete this format , a once prior agreement that anyone using chatroom is responsable to never send bugs and viruses at users of dead.net , nonrespect of that clause leading to definite expulsion from dead.net .
  • marye
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    guys
    I'm reporting this to see if there's anything we can do. I don't want to shut the chat room down, for example, so better to figure out something more reasonable. As many have noted, no, threatening people is not okay, nor is misrepresenting yourself as a Rhino employee (or anyone else) to do so.
  • johnman
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    it's with sadness
    that i read these posts. i have had good and bad experiences in our chatroom, recently very good things have come my way FROM the chatroom, tickets and a hotel room to be exact, so i know there are still good, loving kind folks there. we don't always hafta agree on certain subjects or topics, and there are some that i intentionally avoid discussing in there because i know we don't all have the same point of view. the one thing we DO share is love for the music. other than prayer, the music has been the one constant in my life that i can turn to when i just can't take it anymore. please, any of you that are thinking about leaving us, please, please reconsider. if we keep enough kind folk in there, and commit to not dragging others down with our personal problems (and yes, i am one of those that is guilty of doing this, not intentionally but the chat is my refuge) mebbe we can outweigh the people who don't love the site as much as we do......badger, i'm gonna miss your kind thoughts and words, hopefully you will still use the forums? i love all of you more than you know....you are my FAMILY!!!
  • DancingSingingGirl
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    Cosmic Badger KA Swan
    Using a photo or scripts from the chatroom to harm others is an awful practice/ game and should not be allowed. I was told that recently, things that I had said, in " Play " an 'Imaginative spacey conversation we were having,' was re-posted elsewhere with some important content changed, someone had changed my words, to cause a very hurtful situation ! I know that this has happened to thers as well. I agree it is slander. We love the chatroom and mostly we love sharing The Grateful Deads Music in there... It should not be a tool, used to harm and manipulate others ! play on
  • stuman
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    again reasons I DO NOT use chatroom
    Badger , swan , frankly you said it all . lets get rid of gagalive and make it a Dead.net MEBERS ONLY thing . I for one do not want to talk to folks who are mean and or just not like minded as we all are . I would be more then happy to come back to the chatroom .
  • cosmicbadger
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    I am sorry TL and Mona and
    I am sorry TL and Mona and Swan and everyone else, but I am not going near that place again until I can be more confident that i) it is reasonably secure ii) people who use it are identifiable and accountable iii) it is not being taken over by hackers iv) our conversations are not being recorded and manipulated and v) my computer is not vulnerable to attack (the consequences would be catastrophic for me) Some or all of the the claims and threats that have been made may very well be utter bullshit. I don’t know enough about computers to know, and I am not sure how these concerns can be addressed by 'toughing it out' from inside the chatroom. Still, there must be other ways to fix this. By hosting the chatroom for the registered members of the site, Deadnet must have some responsibility for its security. Especially since the main protagonist has even claimed that he is an ‘insider’ who works for Rhino!!
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So, we've all had some great conversations interrupted by that misbehaving chatroom lately. Mr. Pid wrote a great song on the subject...

Feel free to pick them up again here. Or report your more surreal episodes of being booted for misbehaving. 

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dude!
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that sure was nice of you to share:) was watching it and saw myself change, which really blew my mind..
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you mean you was in the take a step back, Box video? cool beans!!! OR!! did you see yourself as one dude who 'dudes' others, and yet takes no shame in duding a dude? are you a shameless 'duder' dude?? ( -: Some people consider me to be a feckless 'duder' but I, for one, would like to point out that I am full of 'feck' DUDE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Mr. Sunshine Daydream and I don't even know how to perform a virtual Heimlich manuever If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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Having a little repetition problem this morning? Your bug come back:-) Was at Feria-got home at about 7 this morning. Was a great experience, though a pain in the butt to get home. Were in 3 casetas-one quite traditional, one just plain boring, and one where we spent many hours, an "open" one belonging to a group for open-mindedness and toleration, where the music was not Sevillianas, but a mix of ancient Spanish pop classics, and a whole bunch of more alternative Sevillians. Learned the basics of dancing Sevillianas, and after enough manzanilla-could even imitate the more talented halfway decently. Was a great night, but think was enough Sevillian Feria for me. Will go to one in Asuna in May with a co-worker, which is supposed to be smaller. Is supposed to be alot more intimate-so will see. ********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens
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for the dude update...I just duded you...hehe
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Sounds like fun. When I looked at the videos on you tube I was surprised by all the variety.in dance styles and clothing. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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no problemo, dude we aim to please. ********************** "too bad it is ONLY aiming since there aren't too many bullets left in your old gun" mutters ccjoe's old lady. (ouch! that one hurt)
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The wife and I just finished watching Kingpin. I'd fortgotten how funny it is. Anyway, in the course of the film, there comes a point where one of the characters has to roll a third time in the tenth frame. I explained to my wife under what circumstance the phenomenon of the Third Roll In The Tenth Frame occurs and its many and varied possibilitlies (alright, there aren't THAT many). When I finished my discourse she said to me "Wow, I'm glad I don't know that much about bowling." Think it's time to watch The Big Lebowski again ;-).
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"fuck it dude, let's go bowling."
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Don't get him started. Too late. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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I'll have that finger that was in that box...hehe
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perhaps I should refrain from making a tasteless joke about a lady with a cut of finger in her box... yuk yuk yuk. move over Buddy Hacket! ( -:
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So funny!!!!!
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All Recent posts Chat Room Members Who's online There are currently 2 users and 89 guests online. Online users gratefulmom gdclay We should be sleeping!
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Your comment has been queued for moderation by site administrators and will be published after approval.I'll post in the morning!! Good night! :)
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good morning.nice weather in bella espana.here too,in fact it starts getting so warm that i would not wonder if we had palm-trees here within 5 yrs.:-)(-:
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Lady with a fan??? Lady with a finger in her box??! into S&M?? Box of Pain? love that snapping gyro. ohhh, never mind. I'm babbling. ( -;
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This thing got so long in just a few days, can't sit still long enough to read it all right now. I'll hafta start here. HI guys, miss talkin to you all. What's new? PEACE
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that Chianti & shots of Tequila don't mix well.....just ask me...they don't....don't even try it...or you will feel like shit the morning after! Just thought I'd pass that along!
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as an adult person you should know,that NOTHING mixes good with tequila.as long as you do it you will allways feel like shit the day afterLOL!but hav a nice day anyway!:-)(-:

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I happened to look at the page that shows the topics all listed. Would you believe that this topic was created 4 days and 20 hours ago??? It's, it's, it's a miracle I tell ya!!! No, wait, it's Kismet. Well I must take advantage of this fortuitous moment in time. Please excuse me for a bit...

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I had the sirius channel on in the background this afternoon. The topic was something like: 'Your memories of Winterland'. Towards the end of the show they interview a guy from the Bay Area named "Buddy". It's going to be rebroadcast on Tuesday at 5PM ET... Could it be? LOL
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Back many, MANY moons ago when I worked the offshore oil rigs, I met an ancient gentleman who made no bones about his fondness for all things alcoholic (think he used the 7 days offshore to clean up). He told me the only thing he would never drink again was tequila. When I asked why he just smiled and said, "Tequila will make you take back shit you never stole!". . . Words of wisdom.
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Instead, mix it with Nellie and Joe's key lime juice and lime infused simple syrup in equal parts. Also add 1/3 part Cointreau (or triple sec if you must) and shake with ice. Salt to taste if desired. Yummy! I once whipped up a couple of gallons of this for a party of about 40. It actually lasted almost an hour... Conversation is always more interesting than recitation, so speak your mind and not someone else's.
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so this is the new slo-mo chatroom eh? Well at least you have time to think. Got back from Transylvania Sat nite. Hoping all are well and happy here
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Tequila was awesome, (when I used to drink alcohol). I never had any problems while consuming that stuff but unfortunately, other folks I was around, while under it's influence, seemed to think differently. I came to the conclusion (once I came "to") that this drug shuts off one's brain but isn't nearly as effective doing the same on that person's mouth and feet. Apparently many different law enforcement agencies have confirmed this effect on myself and dispite my better judgement, I stopped (if I make it that long, it will be 19 yrs. on Aug. 13th, not that that really matters to me anymore - I do love that the day was the 13th). I still do milk and cookies, though. "Since you've all been such good boys and girls, I would like to take everybody in this entire audience out for milk and cookies. There are buses outside. Everybody follow me."
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just gotta mix the tequilla with Mezcal and grain alcohol...
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Ok I can't believe that you guys are here and haven't said a thing in 23 minutes. You know who I am talking to. If the doors of perception were cleansed, everything would appear to man as it is, infinite. William Blake
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Ya well said, the only thing worse than drinking Ta-Kill-ya is throwing it up!!! Used to drink at a Kiwi Bar here in Shanghai and the Tequila shots were free!! Man i have woken up on buses, parks (with Chinese doing Tai-Chi around me), massage parlers, you name it. So with that being said, i do not drink Tequila anymore. This was a while back!! The comment above: “Tequila will make you take back shit you never stole!” Aint that right!! Good one.
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I didn't throw up,but I should of the night before, so I wouldn't of felt so bad the next day...anyway I'm cool now, and probalby won't drink tequilia for a while...hehe To Frankly...hey man I do know better, I was in the moment and everyone was doing shots , so I said what the hell, my own stupid mistake :/ , but I was smart and didn't drive!!
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Glad your feeling better! Been there before, the worst are the spins. Can't go wrong with a Tastey Margarita, until your on #5 or so. He he Have you ever seen the Cheezy commercial for hangover pills, you take before you go to sleep? CCJ ~ Have you looked in the eyes of the Worm?
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No I never heard of them...I use advil and water...lots of it too!!
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Adore tequila! Is a fun drunk, and for some strange reason does not kill me the day afterwards like most other alcohols tend to.********************************** Don't part with your illusions. When they are gone, you will still exist, but you have ceased to live. Samuel Clemens